Too....too what??  

looking4fun_604 50F
127 posts
10/21/2005 6:36 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Too....too what??


I met someone from the site last week. It was a weeknight, and it was late.

"Bye....going for a walk!!" Out the door I strolled, looking forward to meeting him at the predesignated spot around the corner from my house after he pressured me into making an excuse to get out of the house.

We had been chatting, exchanged pics, hot stories, fantasies, etc. so I thought I knew what to expect. He SEEMED like a nice guy (don't they all!?!?) during the chats. I guess he is a nice guy, but he was too....too what??

It ends there. Not what I expected - see ya later.

What did I get out of it?? Nothing! I lost a chat buddy. Not what I expected....he was too...too what??

What am I looking for here?? I need to figure me out so I can figure IT out. I haven't put any thought into it until right now - being as busy at work as I am, but I need to....need to what??

I get emails & winks & added to hotlists, but its all so much pressure once you start chatting with people. I was pressured to come out to play that night at almost 11pm.

I was chatting with someone else that got pissed at me because I didn't email him when he knew I'd been online (he checked this site to see if I had been online here because I was invisible on IM - and ADMITTED he checked here!!).

I'm married and looking for no-strings on-the-side fun....not another husband (no polygamy for me thanks! I'm full!). Am I going about this the right way?? Should I just stop doing this internet thing and hang out in the produce aisle looking for married men buying strawberries & whipped cream?? Why can't it just be fun??

Sign me as,
looking for no pressure hot times with someone who isn't too....too what??

wantsomebado1 45F
13 posts
10/21/2005 7:12 pm

keep looking sweetie, there will be someone out there that isn't too...too high pressure.


horizkiller 49M
2 posts
10/21/2005 9:00 pm

Too much thought and to much pressure over sex part. Probably would be better if you knew them somewhat. But marries man is exactly what You need. And happily married at that!!!!


rm_kissable007 61F

10/21/2005 9:30 pm

The word you are looking for is too desperate. Some of these men are just looking for a notch in their belt and so are some women for that matter. Even though wanting to stay maried as most of us do, factor in the risk - the risk better damn well be worth it.


BECOOL9297 50M
1 post
10/22/2005 6:04 am

U Just go at your pace and have fun. remember 4 play is the best part and it all about what u want out of it.


rm_funormore 46M

10/22/2005 6:24 am

iam your man! that fun just hot sex ,don't have to answer to guy! for real.


rm_funormore 46M

10/22/2005 6:26 am

here is the guy u speak of zero issues just hot ass lustful passionate fucking


looking4fun_604 50F
67 posts
10/22/2005 9:47 am

~~horizkiller~~
I spent WEEKS chatting with him and thought I knew him somewhat. He wasn't married - and that seems to be a key issue. Someone who has as much to lose as I do & understands the situation.
Thanks for the input & for stopping by!


looking4fun_604 50F
67 posts
10/22/2005 9:53 am

~~wetpanty~~ Love your blog!! I spend too much time reminding the high-pressure guys that I'm not looking for that. Trying to spend my time doing the deed rather than fighting off the losers. I'm very honest from the start, laying it all out - married, looking for FUN (key word here) on the side, no-strings, possible long-term FWB. Too hard to understand for them though. Oh well....


looking4fun_604 50F
67 posts
10/22/2005 9:54 am

~~becool~~trying to do just that!!


looking4fun_604 50F
67 posts
10/22/2005 9:57 am

~~funormore~~ I'm THERE!! Why do all the great guys live on the left coast?? Have a twin in my neck of the woods?? Hope you stop by again soon!


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
10/24/2005 5:54 am

looking~ why do all my favourite women live across the Atlantic?

I have a particular rapport with this bit:

I'm married and looking for no-strings on-the-side fun....not another husband (no polygamy for me thanks! I'm full!). Am I going about this the right way?? Should I just stop doing this internet thing and hang out in the produce aisle looking for married men buying strawberries & whipped cream?? Why can't it just be fun??

I guess there are a whole load of motives out there on AdultFriendFinder, and I would have thought, getting to know people that we should be both open and accommodating. For god's sakes don't go for the supermarket option - they might be buying strawberries and whipped cream for the family! What a waste!


RockPebble 69M
2488 posts
11/18/2005 8:10 am

Pressure is good for balloons not for people. I'm new to this but that doesn't sound like he had your interest in mind. Did you react differently because it was on the internet and not in person? I am still trying to get a feel for this dynamic.


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