some people  

lookin4AFunNight 34F
66 posts
11/26/2005 7:30 pm

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some people


ive been debating whether or not it would make me feel better to write this out or not, well it hasnt made me feel better not to write it so i guess i will try it... this is more for me than for u, but u are more than welcome to respond (i am not looking for any ideas on anything.)
i have this friend. we have only been friends for about 9 months, but it feels like we have known eachother of for many many years. this girl is not the brightest, she tends to make the dumbest choices ever. shes dating this guy that is just worthless. he had nothing going for him, hes 11 years older than her and well he's just a loser. in the last week or 2 he has managed to get her kicked out of her house and have all of her friends pretty much turn their backs on her. i dont blame him 100% but she is so damn stupid and nieve (how ever u spell it sorry i cant make the dots over the e) that she will follow like a fuckin cattle. I miss her alot, but i am so angry at her. she just stopped talking to me for no reason. she did it to me before and i dont know why. she did this shit before and i forgave her (shes had a rough year and i understood that time) but this time its so stupid im in fuck you mode with her. i just wish that she doesnt do something stupid anad get pregnant, because then its all over for her. i feel so bad for her family. they already lost one kid to a car accident this year, and they are losing another to a dead beat old man.

well i didnt say all that i wanted to before, and the thoughts here are all over the place, but i've said enough to feel better all ready

~Lookin

jedievan935 33M

11/28/2005 11:08 pm

It's always tough when a friend is doing something that you're sure is stupid. It makes you feel helpless, and probably more so since she now won't talk to you. The only thing you can hope for is that she comes to her senses and if she starts talking to you again, to try and be there and help her make better decisions. You frustration is really evident. I hope things go better for her, which should take some of that stress back away from you. Take care,

Evan


rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
12/6/2005 4:57 am

Hi lookin; I have an expression or two which may help explain things;

"You can lead a Horse to water, but you can't make it think or drink"

Secondly as Billy Joel said in a song, "Mistakes are the only things you can truely call your own"

If she is driving you nuts and not speaking to you then she is no longer a friend, just someone you know, so dont loose sleep over her. It will be up to her to rebuild the bridge thats all.
Mustang


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