Its A Mad Mad Mad Mad world  

lookin4AFunNight 34F
66 posts
12/1/2005 8:17 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Its A Mad Mad Mad Mad world


well ok so any of u that have been following my blog are familiar with how hurt i was when my ex broke things off with me. well he's back. it apears that he has decided that he doesnt want to be with her and wants to be with me. he has asked me to meet his parents on a weekend vacation out to a desert city. i really dont have any feelings for him anymore, but i really want to fuck him. so im going to go. how can i let him know that that is really all its about for me sex. i enjoy his company, and the big reason why i have nothing more than frienly feelings twords him is because well i dont trust him. i feel like he sneaks around alot and i dont want to ever have to worry about where he is and what he's doing and with who. i want a man i can trust to go out and not feel the need to call around and find where he is, i want to beable to trust that when he says hes going out with the guys that i can believe that thats what he's doing. any ways, and ideas on how to talk to him about my lack of trust which leads to a lack of intrest?

~Lookin

ClausGaiusSmote 43M

12/1/2005 8:45 pm

Truthfully... and granted I don't know you but..

Get over it... he made his choice, and no sex would be worth that.


jedievan935 33M

12/2/2005 1:17 am

First, good call in not trusting him. It seems like he's still not over his ex and that could take some time. If you're still interested in pursuing a sex-only relationship, then you defnitely need to make sure he's up for the same thing.

I think the best way to handle it is to be upfront with him. Let him know you really are interested in sex, but you're not interested in a relationship. Just tell him you don't want the drama of a relationship but still want to have fun in bed, and take that opporunity to let him know you're interested in the kinkier side of things (since explaining that was a concern in your previous post). The best time to tell him all this if you want to convince him to go along is within a few minutes of having sex. If you tease him, work him up, then have some great sex, right afterward he'll go along with almost anything you suggest.


rm_longsilky1 50M
15 posts
12/4/2005 4:41 am

It depends on where you are at in life. If you are wanting to have a man that will make a good husband and father. Wash your hands of him and never, never see him again. There are a lot of nice guys that would be happy to be with you.

Pat


rm_cocopop692 48M
3 posts
1/2/2006 1:27 pm

Now to give u a real answer: i know where u are with that my ex and i always had incredible sex and she saw greener grass and then changed her mind. Look he had his chance, since the sex an companionship was always good that will remain. just remember that since he does want what u ve had back the more u use him for self satisfaction the more he gonna fall back into what used to be then u will start to hate urself for falling back into "that" again rt. So avoid that in long run find u another hottie(like me LO and start having the kind of man in ur life u ve been craving in mind body and spirit
take care love and be smart not just horny-a sneak will always be one even when u prove they dont have to be UR TOOOO FINEEEE FOR THAT SHIT GURL SO STEP - U DONT NEED HIM NOW DO U?


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