Do you have an opinion?  

looken4sumfun2 54M
149 posts
8/11/2005 12:39 pm

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Do you have an opinion?


Does your love for another come from the things that person does for you or by the things you do for the other?

Does your trust and respect for another come from the things that person does for you or by the thing you do for the other?

Is your happiness dependent upon what others do for you or what you do for others making them happy?

Is unconditional love something you receive or only something you can give?

How do you know that you have someone’s unconditional love if it’s never been tested?

If you seek unconditional love, how do you test it without hurting the one that you love?

Is forgiveness something you ask for or something you give?

winsy63 53M
6 posts
8/11/2005 1:13 pm

the happyness, the love and all the good things depend only for what do you do for others


BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

8/11/2005 1:17 pm

The answer to most of these questions to me anyways is"both". also in my opinion no love is unconditional, and why should you have to test love.


pussnboots694 73M/78F

8/11/2005 10:28 pm

Love comes from within.. you have to feel it inside of you to express it.. if someone touches your heart.. you feel it and love them for it..

Trust and respect have to be earned..

Happiness..it makes me happy when I make others smile..

Unconditional love.. Is something only you can give.. do not expect it..

Seeking unconditional love.. open communication...
If you have to test.. you are not getting it..

One can ask for forgiveness..one may not get it in return
That is not the end.. it is a new begining..


looken4sumfun2 54M

8/12/2005 1:07 pm

winsy63, thanks for your comment.


looken4sumfun2 54M

8/12/2005 1:08 pm

blondie, thanks for your thoughts.


looken4sumfun2 54M

8/12/2005 1:09 pm

Ms. Boots,

You continue to amaze me...


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

8/18/2005 8:11 am

true unconditional love is rare...

to love, is to be hurt...

TTFN


looken4sumfun2 54M

8/18/2005 10:02 am

ahh Princess,

You are correct, it is rare! Yet, it's easy to spot the inner beauty of those that are capable of this exceptional human trait.

However, I have to disagree with you that, "to love, is to be hurt."
More that, to love is to put yourself in a position to be hurt. To truly love another, you must bring down those barriers that protect your emotions, exposing yourself, loss of complete control, because you cannot love another by controlling them. And they may do things to hurt you, but it's a risk worth taking.

Because, you can never realize the full joy of this emotion, unconditional love, without accepting this risk...


pussnboots694 73M/78F

8/19/2005 3:58 pm

you are my mirrored reflection


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

8/22/2005 10:51 am

touche'

I clarify...
to allow yourself the unknown..to possibly be hurt by another knowing that it is indeed a risk...fulling exposing yourself to another..for better or worse...

(I am jaded tho...)

TTFN


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