Sexual relief=massive frustration?  

lonlyguyintx 55M
3 posts
11/8/2005 1:26 pm

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Sexual relief=massive frustration?


A while back I had a "friend" over for an afternoon of sex. Yes, that is what she came over for. It was actually what was on her mind. We spent about three hours just exploring each other. I loved to look at her beautiful body, long red hair (she was a natural redhead)and fantastic green eyes. It was a great afternoon. We both enjoyed it a great deal. I do not think that any man had ever spent so much time and attention on her, not himself. I was looking forward to seeing her again.

A few days later I got her alone and she said that she could not do this anymore. (She is living with another guy)and I said OK, that I could understand and respect her choice. I was dissapointed to say the least, but I was OK with her decision.

Now she will not say a word to me. We have classes togeather. We see each other about once a week and she avoids me, refuses to even look at me, much less speak to me. She actually made a comment to a friend that I "caused her enought trouble" and she "did not ever want to speak to me again."

Hold it now, she knew what she was coming over for that afternoon. She was a willing participant, she even chose the time and place! what did I do wrong?

Why is it that two people can't have a friendly relationship that includes sex? And If they have had sex, why can they not go back to being just friends? As much as I liked that afternoon, if I had known it would cost me our friendship, I would not have done it!

I am a very busy person. I would love to have a female friend that I could share and enjoy a sexual relafionship with. I really do not want a commitment right now. (But it the right person came along that would be great.) All I want is the chace to do one of the things I love most in this world, spend time showing a woman how sexy and special she is.

I am not into picking up just any woman in a bar and going home to have at it. I want to be quite and careful. I want to protect both of our privacy and health.

So ladies, is this possable? Or is it the strange fantisy of a warped mind?

Justforfungirl5 49F
68 posts
11/8/2005 3:53 pm

Sounds to me like she got caught by her other guy and she is placing the blame on you. If that's the case, she probably wasn't a true friend. It seems like the majority of the posts I see are wanting a friends-with-benefits relationship ... so you came to the right place ... perhaps may be better to find one here than one you have to see in real life on a semi-regular basis. Best wishes!


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