The perfect blowjob  

longnthck2u8 54M  
56 posts
8/15/2006 1:42 am

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The perfect blowjob


One of the sexiest ways a man can be pleasured is when a woman adores his cock. To us men, a cock represents about 80% or our ego, so if you want to make your man smile from his soul; you need to completely and thoroughly ADORE his cock. One of the BEST ways to do this is to suck it for him. And I don't mean just lightly lick it; I mean take it in your hand, devour it, lick it hard, suck it hard and feel it down your throat.

First of all, men know if you like doing this or not, just by how you go about it. If you don't like it, he will know because the enthusiasm is not there. Be PASSIONATE about giving head. Go for the gusto and it will turn him on so incredibly that he will say "I had the BEST blowjob today," and he will remember it for many hours of masturbation later.

A woman in charge of the blowjob and who wants to seriously give her man pleasure is in control of him in this moment. Make sure he knows YOU are sucking him; he is NOT fucking your face! One thing you should always tell a man is not to put his hand on your head. Women don't need any help pushing the head down. God they just HATE that!!!

Here are some tips for truly making love to your partners penis:

1) Grab my cock hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if it's too hard. Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have you ever seen a man jack off??? You think he's going to seriously hurt himself. LOL. He yanks that thing and pulls it so hard; you think he is going to pull it off!!!

2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it into your mouth. He will feel like he is a yummy lollipop as you slurp his love muscle. He is thinking to himself, "Oh she just loves my cock," and this excites him unbelievably. Remember,
you are sucking his EGO.

3) Get it WET. Most men LOVE sloppy slurpy juicy blowjobs. The saliva heats up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.

4) Stroke his balls, but do this carefully. Some women love men who shave down there because the softness of their skin is such a turn on to me. Also, licking is more fun and sucking balls that are shaved is HOT!!

5) Create a good suction and pop his cock in and out of your mouth. On circumcised men the lip of the helmet is sensitive and some men just go wild when you flip this lip as if you could tip it off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't know about, but it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is the part underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley up the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion with your rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with your mouth and lips, sucking at the same time. Then plunge his cock down your throat while tonguing his shaft. wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth. Any time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get incredible results and moans from your man.

6) Let him watch as you master his cock (ego). If you are lying on the bed between his legs, or if he is standing looking down, he is intently watching you. Use one hand to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs, nipples, and hold his cock with the other hand so you can guide it carefully away from your back teeth. Guys, who pull your hand away, sometimes regret it because they don't realize you are keeping his precious head from those sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If they've pulled your hand away though, it might be an indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that he wants you to take his cock deeper into your mouth, especially if he is small and your hand takes up most of the length of the shaft. Going all the way down is incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his cock disappear.

7) Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their balls because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you gently stroke them and suck them by taking one into your mouth at a time, tonguing it then moving to the other one, you will see how much enjoyment is derived from this attention. Then use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock and feel him gasp when you again, suck the head into your mouth.

Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging of your tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable. Try twirling it around the head one way, than the other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.

9) Another little trick that makes my men gasp with pleasure is when women use their teeth ever so gently on the cap of the penis. Be sure there is a lot of saliva for gliding your teeth on. Start out by having your teeth clenched together at the tip of the penis. Then as you glide down the cap slowly open your jaws. Your lips are closed around the shaft as my head moves downward. Then flick your tongue as your teeth give way and cause a suction with it. This sensation seems to bring a new experience to each recipient and usually elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you learn that??"

10) And last but not least, swallowing cum. Men have been asked men which they prefer. A woman swallowing his cum or him, jacking off in the last seconds before he cums, onto her breasts, ass or whatever. Many men grew up watching porn and in all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "cum shot." As a result, many men associate an awesome orgasm with pulling out and cumming on her breasts, face, tummy or ass as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of your labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on your breasts. And it's especially nice when the man then goes and gets a warm washcloth, and cleans you up after that. That is a return compliment. But most will say they want you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions MOST asked by guys online, "Do you swallow?" is one of the most asked questions. This is because if you remember in the beginning, my first point was; a man's ego lives in his penis. If you swallow his ambrosia, his EGO is given the ULTIMATE compliment.

After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.

You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure your partner in ways he might not be familiar. Listen to the noises he makes and be acutely aware of what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things: Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety of moves plus swallowing his cum is going to get your man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job.

rm_seville2004 65F
1 post
9/1/2006 1:22 am

Thanks for the scrotal tutorial. Very clear instructions told in a very sexy way. Would like to try it on you.


shellzzy 53F
1 post
9/14/2006 7:07 pm

Damn! Very Nice!! Very nicely written!! I want some!!! I believe I can give the ULTIMATE blow job!


SverigesAngel 52F
17335 posts
10/8/2006 3:35 am

Nothing new here, but very eloquent! Again I might have a few tricks up my sleeve, not mentioned here, or shall we say mouth!

You'll just have to wait and see, won't you?

BTW, I LOVE GIVING ORAL JUST AS MUCH AS I DO RECEIVING IT!

Angelique
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longnthck2u8 replies on 10/8/2006 8:53 am:
Thank you for the comment and yes, I am looking forward to that next step in meeting and sharing our mutual love for sex.

rm_NASTYGIRL124 50F

10/18/2006 1:59 pm

I'm going to give my man the blow job of his life.
Thanks "SWEETIE"


ineeditbiglong 56F

10/19/2006 11:30 am

ok but I have been told that it is really nice when the teeth are totally out of the way,haven't been with many guys who like them on there member.


cerebralbuthot
(Tanya )
52F

8/31/2007 10:35 pm

longnthck2u8 .........Hey Babe! Seriously.....are there women out there that don't know these things? Damn, I always knew that I was amazing at this!! I scored a perfect 10!!

Actually I have heard that there are quite a few women out there who do not enjoy giving BJ's. I don't get that, I love it!! In fact, sometimes that is ALL that I want to do! And swallowing? OMG! It doesn't get any sexier.

My favorite moment?: It is the first time that you are giving your man a BJ. Just when he is right on the edge, a gentleman will say, "I'm going to cum", or "I can't hold it any longer", or something to alert you that you are about to get a mouthful! lol (I guess they do this because they are used to other women who don't swallow and don't want to get yelled at). AND THEN, you look him straight in his eyes, without missing a beat and communicate to him that you aren't going anywhere and you KNOW that you are about to get a load! That LOOK on his face and that moan that cums from deep down inside as he realizes that he is about to release his cum into your mouth, down your throat and that you are MORE THAN HAPPY to swallow it! MMmmm.........

So, when are you cumming to No. Cali???????? (lmao)


WhiskeysBack 53F

10/28/2007 2:51 pm

Thanks for enlightening some women.. Thats nothing I didnt know or have'nt tried. and I thank you for the reminder of how lucky my man is t get it as good as he does everytime!!


rm_dario_dvt
(dario stella)
38M
1 post
2/20/2008 8:35 pm

hola me encanto tu espacio


rm_lovbutton 38F
2 posts
2/28/2008 8:13 am

Oh babe, I love giving my sex partner a blow job. I love holding your cock in my mouth, playing with your cock in my mouth, sucking your cock in my mouth and feeling your cock get harder inside of my mouth as i suck your cock. I love to feel your cock pulsating inside of my mouth as you are cumming inside of my mouth. Having my sex partners cock inside of my mouth makes my pussy very wet and horny and makes it crave to be fucked. I would love to give you a blow job!


frangipani69 56M/47F
7 posts
8/26/2008 4:37 pm

mmmm... I do believe I excede your excellence- in-fellatio standard!
frangipani69(she)


alwaysyummy4u 43F

11/18/2008 3:59 pm

I have been told that i give the best BJ's ever. I do all that you mentioned here and more. Men often complain that a lot of woman in there past do not enjoy giving BJ's , and it is so clear by how they do it. I do not just give a AWESOME BJ i make love to the cock with my mouth, which is the key to being great at it. A woman should admire the shaft, head, balls and everything around it. Being gentle but agressive as well. Most men complain that woman do not pay much attention to the balls. OMG i just love to suck on them, but only if they are nicely shaved, so smooth and sexy, i just love them!!! I love knowing i am driving this man to a high level of extacy.


longnthck2u8 replies on 11/19/2008 10:40 am:
So, when can we make this happen and I can demonstrate the art of cunningless on your sweet juicy pussy. I love to spend time on the g-spot and really get the juices flowing and sometimes squirting like crazy.

Natina13 65F

2/6/2009 2:07 am

GREAT.....you forgot one or two things though. A lot of men like a vibrator on their scrotum as you devour their earthly delight and some even like anal or prostate stimulation with the oral.( Silver bullets....yummo )
Personally, I think even a little anal tongue action is great, if both parties are very hygienic people.
My favorite of all is to gently look into his eyes talk to him, tell him how beautiful is cock is and how much I want it, all of it... slowly,carefully part the opening of his penis slightly, give some butterfly flicks, then drip my warm saliva into the open hole....then proceed to retrieve it by sucking it deeply, yet rhythmically, till my saliva is returned to my mouth.
Oh.....and I like men natural..hair is great....somethings I swallow...somethings I spit. Thank you for your articulate blogs, I will smile and yawn for days


longnthck2u8 replies on 2/10/2009 3:24 pm:
Hello, and thank you for your comment. Some like it shaved, some like natural....I go both ways, when the shave is necessary, I shave, if not, it grows....

Cumming is so good for both parties, and I love the scrotum massage....

My best

SDBBW4fun 47F

12/27/2011 8:07 pm

Very well thought out...Good info!

Any chance you're available for a few practice rounds?


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