Where to fuck safely?  

lonelypussybbw 43F
67 posts
7/29/2005 8:50 am

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Where to fuck safely?

I'm curious - when both people are unable to use their homes, where do you fuck? I'm really interested in having some guys on here in my cunt but where???

My husband would see the charges on a credit card so that's out. I can get some cash but not regularly enough to get hotel rooms. I suspect most married or people in long term relationships are the same way.

There is a fine line about where to fuck in privacy versus safety. Let's face it, we don't know either other and even meeting in a bar once before doesn't guarantee someone isn't going to cut you up in little pieces.

How do you do this safely with discretion and affordability?

rm_cumshoteyes 55M

7/29/2005 10:08 am

I have found that most hotels/motels usually won't take cash. They like credit cards. I would think that casual sex with strangers is totally insane. I'm guessing the framework of "unable to use their homes" indicates that both are married/LTR but fooling around. If one of them has a friend that'll let them use their place (and keep there mouth shut about it) is a possibility. That worked in the past for me. I also happen to live near a National Park so there were many very isolated/secluded spots to picnic for a long afternoon of outdoor sex!

rm_greenICE21 33M

7/29/2005 11:50 am

I would second the friend's home idea. Or just find someone that lives alone...

rm_mark23892 36M
5 posts
8/1/2005 8:48 pm

you pose a very good question. that is why i will make a proposal to you. i travel on business to your area often, and stay at only the nicest hotels. I would love to take you out for an evening, or just take care of a few of your fantasies.

lonelypussybbw 43F
4 posts
8/8/2005 1:49 pm

GreenICE - I'm back in town and we should definitely get in touch.

Mark - sounds interesting! tell me more.

IkeXL 48M

8/8/2005 4:01 pm

Forget Hotels. Motels are the way to go! I have found that motels just on the edge of big cities or along inter-states have very flexable payment options - CASH. But if your hot, horny, and can't wait; get the room at your desired hotel with your credit card and pay for it with cash upon check out. Your credit card just gaurentees payment. Two more things: 1. Never use the hotel/motel phone. Use your cell or better, a payphone. 2. ALWAYS destroy reciepts.

rm_purple987654 50F
8 posts
8/8/2005 6:22 pm

How about get your own credit card that your significant other doesn't know about, get the other person to pay, or in my case, the significant other knows about it so don't need to avoid the house. If you plan to use it often enough, an inexpensive bachelor apartment may be a good deal. Find some people in your area from here who are in the same situation and go in on it together? Join a private club for play ( not any cheaper than a hotel though)

Arturus55 67M
2 posts
8/8/2005 8:42 pm

My lady and I are lucky to have access to her sister's place. Her sister hates my ladies husband and is happy to help us out. I would try to go for the friends house or if you're lucky like we are, you can find a safe place.

methodman1000 40M
1775 posts
8/9/2005 2:34 am

ur best bet is a friends place and some hotel take cashbut u av to be very discreet,that just mt advise

rm_ForFeel 41M

8/12/2005 8:56 pm

I've done it several spots. While motels are usually the easiest, I have also taken advantage of my company's building on the weekend, and several others. If you want have some fun on the side and explore some possible locations, contact me directly. forphil at earthlink dot net. I'll be watching for your response if you are interested.

lookin4youinhere 58M
1 post
8/20/2005 12:54 pm

Yep, an interesting question. I have a full size van so it's not really a problem mostly.

hamperj 69M
1 post
8/21/2005 4:48 pm

I would go for the motel, but is hard for me to get the time and excuse... Damn I'm lonely.. I slipped into a relationship that is pulling my heart strings.. I hate it.. I can't do anything about it..
I just suffer, pray it will go away.

rm_betucan114 51M

8/23/2005 7:59 am

how abot i come by to fix your computer suit and all,or maybe a nice secluded parkink garage, hell i once did it in a carwash, and it helps to know a little about the hotels near by.

rm_betucan114 51M

8/23/2005 8:01 am

how abot i come by to fix your computer suit and all,or maybe a nice secluded parking garage, hell i once did it in a carwash, and it helps to know a little about the hotels near by.

rm_nckayak 62M

8/26/2005 10:53 am

A friends place works for me. It's private, well decorated. Often, I'll leave some $$ to help him with his rent. He leaves for work around 8. When my lover and I get there, he'll have candles lit and music playing. I've even called at lunch as asked if I could swing by and use the "Hotel" briefly... If you have such and arrangement, it works great.... My "Raleigh Hotel" is super.

rm_hardup11970 46M
1 post
8/27/2005 11:21 pm

You know I have that same problem, only I'm going on a year now with real pussy. Hey maybe we can chat some time and figure this shit out


9/6/2005 12:09 pm

if you've got an suv put the seats up, get one of those air mattresses into the back of the suv pumped up and have @it. The best suv/mini van for this is the one with sto and go seat'n. You'd be surprized how much room is in the back of those vehicles. Eg..I av a range rov'r and once the seats are up I simply blow-up a queen size air mattress, drop the tailgate and its home sweet home. The stars add a nice romantic touch to it before during and after.

LongnStrong1957 60M
4 posts
10/4/2005 8:00 am

Some other places you might want to try (I have):

1. The beach. Out in the water. Make sure nothing shows at the surface. Works well if not very crowded. Especially fun if sexy girls notice, but don't know for sure what is going on ...

2. Some university libraries (UNC Charlotte for example) have small study rooms without windows, intended for visiting faculty, etc. These doors are often left unlocked ... make sure you DO lock it while in use! Do not use if there are signs of recent room use. A chair under the doorknob will allow extra dressing time in case of miscalculation or bad luck ...

3. If you don't mind the "ambiance" you could try it in a booth at your local adult bookstore.

4. Larger cities in some areas have rental rooms with hot tubs (usually $10 to $20 per hour).

5. Some swinger's clubs are open during daylight hours for a similar fee.

Good luck!

rm_boneapetite2 58M

10/7/2005 10:31 am

How about in my office in the morning or after hours.

rm_tomm4020 40M
1 post
12/25/2005 3:00 pm

send me a photo please

rm_flyboy2606 50M
29 posts
2/27/2006 6:39 pm

Become a pilot or work for an airline. I'll be in Raleigh on St. Patrick's day 6:30pm if you want to meet for some discreat dinner/drinks. E-mail me if you want.

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