To Show or Not To Show ...  

lonely_in_21502 46M
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8/12/2006 12:53 pm

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To Show or Not To Show ...

I was glancing thru' the profiles at my "competition" (for lack of a better word) and I noticed an odd trend.

Nearly all of them had a photo of their private region as the primary picture.

I understand that this is a Swinger and Sex site and that they are probably just showing the "main item of interest", but are the girls really interested in that?

I mean, sure, I'm sure there are a lot of them out there that are looking at them, but is it what they are looking for in order to pick someone?

I have some of those photos myself, but they are not the primary. In fact, I think that maybe I should take them off unless someone asks me for one. I don't know.

What are your tho'ts on this?

CB_2 51F

8/12/2006 1:58 pm

Generally speaking, whenever I've seen this subject raised in blogs, the girls are practically unanimous in not wanting cock pics on profiles. In fact, many of us have a specific policy that we don't even respond to e-mails that come with a cock pic attached.

It's not that we don't want to see the real thing, and we certainly might be interested in a picture once we've already spoken to someone. But not wham - bam - in your face. It's a question of class.

And I think it says a lot about some men's insecurities that they think they have nothing to offer except cock. Which is a shame.

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