Kissing is for losers....  

londongames 36M
288 posts
3/9/2006 7:23 am

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3/20/2006 12:15 am

Kissing is for losers....

SLAM is the sound of my fist in this person’s ribcage for saying such nonsense…. Kissing is arguably the best passtime given to us on this earth.
My nan used to think so too, and for many years she almost put me off the idea whenever we would see each other, suffice to say I persevered, and eventually kissed and kissed and kissed my way to lip heaven………. Not with my nan you understand.

The thing ive always wondered is this:

HOW DO WE KNOW WE’RE GOOD KISSERS??

Ok, before someone says because you just know, or people tell me I am, yada yada yada…. I must put forth this suggestion: Isn’t it all conveniently subjective?
Is it a lucky break when two people with two identifiable (here comes the science bit lol) kissing techniques find one another’s lips?

I was first learning how to kiss when I brought up the courage to ask this girl out at secondary school. I was 11 or 12 I think. Kissing to me was a peck on the cheek then running hell bent & leather round the corner to giggle with your mates by the bins…

Things have evolved slightly since then, although instinct kicks in at times and the girl is left standing alone as I pant heavily around some discerning corner… But I have been given varying advice growing up, my first tidbit was from a French exchange student with a perm and a beard (he was 15) who told me its supposed to be like a washing machine.

I asked him “spin cycle? Slow dry?”

Nevertheless I guess the more you kiss the more you realise that there are many hidden variables, and that not everyone is very good at it.

I have to say I’ve been disappointed at times, when I find myself not enjoying it.
I was speaking to a recent friend of mine (she knows who she is) about how much we both love kissing. It’s so important, and I hope, not overrated with most..
Maybe I’m the bad kisser?? Who knows. Although I’d like to think I’m pretty good. I’m pretty intuitive about physical things like that. Well I’ve always been told that I’m a good kisser but the point is I think people are starting to take it for granted.

I think everyone thinks they’re good at it and frankly that doesn’t set me apart, and I’m not happy with that… Have you ever heard of anyone saying they’re a bad kisser? Didn’t think so.
Maybe there should be refresher courses, to keep you on the straight and narrow…An extra AdultFriendFinder setting perhaps, with a rating system… Don’t you think?

Till next time….


rm_ByNaomi 35F
1261 posts
3/9/2006 1:31 pm

Funny..
I was having this exact conversation
the other day!
Small world eh..?
For me, kissing is like being hungry and thirsty
at the same time and not knowing
how to satisfy the need..
Once started out kissing I never want to stop!

The thought of kissing someone for the
first time.. The anticipation..! *sighs*
Or the comfort in kissing a lover, friend..?
Passionate kissing, curious kissing..
More kissing!

Lots of more kissing...!

Someone, please kiss me!

© ByNaomi MyMirrorWithin 05'-08'


BlondieInOz 34F

3/9/2006 11:56 pm

Noone ever tried to kiss me till I was 17 and my braces came off.

Take your braces off London Ok its going to feel so much better


londongames 36M

3/10/2006 12:17 am

HAHA, reminds me of my fav. childhood film: GOONIES....
(removes strapped helmet gear and metal plates from mouth)

.....hey, this feels so much better!! and a lot less hazardous in wet weather

LG


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