Man Laws...Question for the men!  

lollipopp37 47F
53 posts
6/26/2006 12:12 pm

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1/19/2007 12:48 pm

Man Laws...Question for the men!

I know that there are "man laws" or a "man code". I may be asking some of you to let me in on a secret. I think i already know the answer but I'd like some feedback anyway. First of all..I've had some great experiences on this site and have few regrets. I've had a few men tell me I give the best blowjob, head, headjob, whatever. Personally, I think I'm good..probably because i love to do it. However, I wonder... I'm a bit cynical, I think this comment is probably a way to ensure more oral sex in future meetings. Just like the "baby, you've got the best pussy" or "the wettest pussy", etc. So, am I right? Do men say these things just to flatter women so they'll keep offering? I'm a smart girl, I also know that in the middle of an orgasm...we blurt out all kinds of things. I know I think I'm in love for at least a few seconds when I'm getting it done right...good sex can cloud your thinking! Either way, I'll keep on sucking dick if I like him...I don't need to hear that I'm the best if i'm not. Please let me know...i promise not to tell!!

buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
6/26/2006 1:47 pm

If he says it great it probably is, if it isn't he would be more likely to say nothing. Then again, if you ask how it was, he will say it was great even if it wasn't (as you point out, to help insure that it happens again, because bad head is better than no head) Judging by your photo, with those lips it almost has to be excellent.

You asked.

lollipopp37 replies on 6/26/2006 2:45 pm:
Thanks Mike..I'll keep that in mind. I never ask how it was maybe you're right!

eveready06 41M

7/1/2006 2:44 am

Whats the point in lying? If you tell someone they give the best blowjob ever and they clearly don't their never going to get it right are they?? lol! It's not in a mans best interests to lie about such things! Personally, if I was going down on a woman I would like to know the things I was doing right and the things I was doing wrong so I could give her the best possible experience next time! Everyone likes different things, theres no template for the best oral sex whichever side your on, its all about communication as far as I can see! Ps saying all that I've never had any complaints lol!

lollipopp37 replies on 7/1/2006 5:31 pm:
Thanks eveready...I agree....I will often tell a man to give me pointers or directions for how he likes his dick sucked...I don't mind..i aim to please! Plus, i'm sure everybody's different; some like slow others like fast, deep or stay on the tip, hand or no hand...etc..

Str8Shooter31 48M
48 posts
7/3/2006 12:07 pm

I agree with wobejaz 100%. There have been times that I couldn't get anywhere because I couldn't stop thinking about the poor job. Also, enthusiasm is a huge part of being "good". I think I'd like to give a personal observation/review so email

Keep on truckin' lollipopp37

SweetLoadInKC 45M

7/4/2006 1:38 pm

I dont' think I've ever told anyone that they were the best - don't want them getting full of themselves.

Although I might add that I've met ALOT of great cock suckers and each has their own style and is great for a different reason. And I'm always looking for more!

rm_WriterinKC 56M

7/6/2006 9:17 am

Perhaps the best solution is to say, "That is one of the best BJ's ever." It's honest and positive.

TeddybearSadist 49M/33F  
4 posts
7/7/2006 10:41 am

You are absolutly right about most not being...selective. To many men, just GETTING head is a treat. I can count on one hand the number of women who can make me cum simply by sucking me. Most can't handle a larger cock, and if they can, they can't do it long enough. I am sure this sounds like some form of bragging, but it is not. I have been with enough women bad, good, and know what great head is. Blossom can suck me like a jack hammer for 30 min...head to balls. That takes desire, strength, and honestly...a bigger mouth and a trained throat. Every woman I know will say they give the best head, and have been told so...and then ten min in their jaw hurts, they are gagging, or their neck hurts. So yes, I think most men are either not discerning enough or are simply glad to get head of any kind.


bigfreije 36M
1 post
7/10/2006 12:05 am

In my opinion it is a combination of both I know that I have said that tp a girl but then you meet someone else and they are just as good. However you cant say that to a girl hey you are just as good as my last gf because you do enjoy it and you do want her to do it again.

DeepLove8 58M/53F  
111 posts
7/10/2006 8:03 pm

TBS is right on the mark. We pride ourselves on being able to orally satisfy each other, and our friends, however long it takes. If you truly LOVE giving oral, it will be obvious from the attention you give it and your ability to pick up on your partner's response to a range of stimuli. I LOVE to give him a long blow job and he ALWAYS responds in kind. And the longer he works on me... the harder I cum. We know EXACTLY what each other likes. After all, the ultimate goal is an Earth Rocking Orgasm no matter how long it takes.

rm_nix611 61M
3 posts
8/23/2006 9:03 pm

Hey what is the deal! If it is good and they say it is good then go with it. The bottom line is ,Do they want more!


rm_susumu3333 37M
1 post
12/11/2006 2:36 pm

I, for one, will not tell a woman she gives good head if she doesn't. Flat and simple. I prefer honesty, I know... a shocker, because if its not done in a way that I particularly enjoy, then its not AS good as it could be. I know if I'm not performing cunilingus in a manner that my mate prefers I would want to know so I can alter what I am doing to best satisfy her desires. Its give and take. You give advice, I take it and use it. I just expect the same of a partner. Hopefully that gives you a better idea, or perhaps I just confused it more. *shrug*

hornyman64111 55M
1 post
12/16/2006 6:33 am

You are a smart Girl for asking a question to substantiate. My response is that I personally let my feelings in the moment (or hours) show and be heard. Sometimes its not a word, its sounds or sentences, confessions from the heart! Its like you said, extremely good sex and/or vibes help us to let down our guard and be real with that intimate lover. Also, being very attracted to someone will allow you to try harder to please them, compliments inclusive.


pleasure4u819 46M

1/7/2007 10:14 am

Well for me i've never told a woman she was the bomb if she wasn't. I think its an insult and disrespectful to what your sharing be it relationship, or just sex. If your good then your good. If your great then your great. If your mind blowing....well you get the point.

PVJowe 57M/54F  
84 posts
2/28/2007 9:56 am

Personally I thought my hubby was just blowing smoke up my ass about me giving him the best BJ.
However, I have changed my mind after he has continually asked for more.
BTW, wanna join us sometime?

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