I'm a racist?  

lollipopp37 47F
53 posts
6/26/2006 11:00 am

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1/13/2007 4:08 pm

I'm a racist?

My profile is very clear..I am clearly more attracted to black men. That is what I like. I recently received yet another message saying I'm a racist! I'm a white girl... I've been attracted to black men for as long as I can remember. I like to blame it on my parents...like everything else...Rather, I credit my parents, since it is a good thing. I used to babysit for a couple when I was 12 or so. The father was black and the mother from pakistan. Sooo, my first dose of interracial relationships. I didn't see much of that in the suburbs of Kansas City. I had such a crush on the father. I think this contributed to my preference. Everyone has a preference. Some are more strict about their preference than others. If a man prefers blondes, and prefers not to have sex with brunettes while waiting for a blonde...is he discriminating? If he doesn't care how good a brunette may be, because blondes are the only ones that really take him over the top, is he bigoted? I also prefer to have sex with men that are younger than 50. So, I guess i'm a racist and an age-ist! Come on. I'm not turning down white men for employment. I'm not treating them poorly simply because of their race. I am attracted to dark skin, I think it is so sexy against me and my lack of color. It's that simple. I don't believe black men have bigger dicks. I don't want a gangsta. Hell, I even prefer rock over . So, can't it be okay that i just love the look? Ok...there is more to it. I can't bring myself to come face to face with a white man's penis because of past traumatic experience. But I still love white men...I don't assume they will hurt me or abuse me. I just don't want to have sex with them......IS THAT SO BAD?

SleekIcilyVarix 41M

6/26/2006 11:47 am

There's clearly nothing racist about your preference.
Some people simply don't understand that everyone is entitled to have likes and dislikes, standards, and preferences. You've got yours and shouldn't have to put up with those who don't respect them.

lollipopp37 replies on 6/26/2006 11:59 am:
Thank you Fireside!

rm_ventialtor 48M
44 posts
6/26/2006 12:06 pm

hey 'pop. you go out there and take what you like -- forget the haters. man, life is just too short.

keep keepin' on!


lollipopp37 replies on 6/26/2006 12:21 pm:
Thanks Vent!! You know, the last guy to tell me I'm a racist had his profile turned off so I couldn't respond...figures..ignorant AND chicken!

rm_ventialtor 48M
44 posts
6/26/2006 12:08 pm

oh, and by the way, you have a really cute pussy!

lollipopp37 replies on 6/26/2006 12:21 pm:
I know, right? And i can't keep my hands off of her!

139 posts
7/1/2006 5:54 pm

You'er no racist. A racist hates a paticular group of persons. You have a preference for a certain group of persons. As long as you are happy and not hurting anyone in your quest who cares what other people say.


lollipopp37 replies on 7/1/2006 5:56 pm:
I know!! But hey, without the ignorant people, who would we laugh at!!

DebonaireRogue 51M

7/4/2006 8:59 am

Hey, we all have our preferences - as to our sexual partners as well as our diets, the cars we drive, areas we wish to reside, friends we want to associate with.

I'm heterosexual...does that make me a homophobe? I don't think so.

Those who label you a racist or me a homophobe are guilty of being morons, nothing more or less. And that's a wonderful hem on your skirt!

lollipopp37 replies on 7/5/2006 5:39 pm:
why thank you...sexy!

lollipopp37 replies on 7/5/2006 5:39 pm:
why thank you...sexy!

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
7/5/2006 11:35 pm

I agree with all the posters. You like who you like and that's all there is to it. You don't owe anybody any explanation or apology about it either. So do your thing girl!

Rock on!

PS-I got through this without swearing...LOL!

rm_ClitPumper1 49M
273 posts
8/28/2006 12:27 pm

PrivateSecret4u 54M

9/5/2006 9:51 pm

Very nice to see that there are many others that truly understand that we all have likes and dislikes. It is extremely clear that you are a very intelligent woman that understands what makes you happy. Just continue to ingore the ignorant! BE WELL

yournewhobby2 42M

12/31/2006 9:54 pm

Of course you're a racist. You discriminate based on race. But I don't care personally. Whatever floats your boat, or makes your pussy wet. It makes no difference to me. I do find it odd though, the exclusivity that is, because an attractive lady can make me hot no matter the ethnicity. I see where you're coming from with the contrast in skin tone. I find the same thing attractive in women of sub-Saharan African descent. But there's so many other things I like about other ethnicities. With so many flavors to choose from, I can't pick a favorite. It seems limiting. To each his/her own though. Have fun lollipopp. I suppose I'll never know how many licks it takes to make you moan....and that's...OK.lol See ya!

P.S. I'll be sure to steer any 50+ non-black guys your way, m'kay?

lollipopp37 replies on 1/13/2007 4:09 pm:

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