What the hell is this person thinking?  

lockestryfe 36M
63 posts
3/5/2006 5:03 am

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What the hell is this person thinking?

I have a 'friend'/work aquaintance that I talk to failry often. About three weeks ago, she was telling me how she and her boyfriend found her boyfriend's cousin ODing on heroin in their bathroom. She kept going on about how that image was burned into her mind, about howmuch it scared her. She also kept going on about how the image of her boyfrined freaking out, seeing that they broke up the first time because he had to go into rehab for... (wait for it)... heroin addiction. So Wednesday rolls around, and I walk into work, and find out about my asst. manager getting killed in a car wreck ( as told about in Bad things happen in threes... ) she drops the fact that she had the needle in her arm the night before. Now of course, I was dazed and confused over the dead manager situation, and I actually had been considering her a very good friend at that point, so naturally I got on her case, majorly. I hadn't even thought about the whole OD conversation. That was Wednesday night. This morning I was getting off of work, and I sat and talked to a different server who was still there. I found out that I had been lied to about a great many things... Namely, how many drugs my 'friend' is actually doing right now, how many people she's done them with, and what else she's done with them, all the while she's told me, point blank in my face, that she only did it the once, and she was alone and bored...

If you're reading my blog, then you already have, or are going to read my previous posts, and you all know I hate dishonesty. It bugs the shit out of me. Now faced with all of this, what the hell am I supposed to do? Am I supposed to be the crutch she always leans on when she needs to talk to someone, who obviously doesn't get high with her? Hell, now that I'm sitting here thinking about it, I don't even know if she really ahs a boyfriend or not, much less watched his cousin overdose...

What am I supposed to do?

p.s. The third from Bad things happen in threes... happened... Last night's greeter had to leave 5 or 10 minutes after getting to work cause she was having chest pains. I still don't know anymore then the fact that she is currently in the hospital. Good greif... what the hell is gonna happen next?

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
3/5/2006 5:34 am

I hope the bad happenings are over!!! I would tell your friend how you are feeling.

Purry {=}


julie4daddy34 45F
599 posts
3/5/2006 10:37 am

I've learned from a past experience with a friend that did drugs that they will lie, cheat, steal and do whatever they have to do to hide the fact that they have an addiction. Just a shame your friend doesnt realize what she's doing. I'd be upfront and honest with her and tell her how you feel. If she gets mad, or doesnt wanna be your friend then she prolly wasnt a friend to begin with. Best of luck hon *hugs*

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