the saga continues...  

lmonique 41F
33 posts
11/20/2005 6:07 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

the saga continues...

Sorry it's been a while; I've been under the weather. Anyway, I hooked up with him again, really looking forward to some more of what we'd shared the last time we were together. Had to knock some of the dust off NOT!!! I SHOULD HAVE HAD A V8. He left me hanging yet again. He's young so the dick bounces right back after he cums, but as soon as we get going good he's DONE and he's off to dreamland. I was more horny when he left than I was before he came by. It's been a week and I haven't seen or heard from him. The only thing that is consistent about this man is his kisses. Everything he does with his mouth works for me.

My frustration is that we discussed the nature of our relationship and unfortunately, it is truly just a fuck thing. Because we both work alot, we decided to be monogamous. PROBLEM: I need it longer, stronger, and more often, but our conflicting schedules and his inconsistent performance are not making this a mutually - beneficial arrangement. I am at my best when I only have one partner, we trust one another, and are able to explore and set aside our inhabitions. At this time in my life, I have not desire to have multiple parnters, but Man Oh Man, what's a girl to do? PLEASE HELP!!! How do you suggest I best handle my dilemma?

I will not go outside of our arrangement without first talking to him but any suggestions would be appreciated and definitely taken under advisement...

rm_69isfine1975 43M
1 post
11/20/2005 2:05 pm

You need to let me fuck the shit out of you and give you the oral pleasure you deserve.

rm_txscorpion 42M
206 posts
12/9/2005 9:24 pm

It's good that the 2 of you have expressed the nature of your relationship, but there still seems to be a problem with communication. One of the aspects in attaining sexual gratification is being able to talk with your partner about your wants/needs and their wants/needs. The 2 of you are definitely not on the same page.

First things to him about everything that you enjoy and also may want to try in terms of foreplay. Massages, erotic teasing, etc. In this respect this will teach him how to consider your needs first before racing to the finish first. It also provides you with preliminary orgasms (if done right) before you get started with the good stuff.

Also, you may want to take the lead and create the pace of your sexual activities. A pace that will leave him excited, but not too excited to where he pulls the trigger before he sees his target. It's a plus that he is able to recover quickly. So by setting the pace, you will be able to enjoy each session longer and also receive more satisfaction each time. This also helps to teach him a little self-control so that he can last longer with every experience.

Hope these few little tid-bits helps you out. If you decide to use any of this, let us know how it turns out. Hopefully you won't be needing another V-8 and a cold shower.

Worse case scenario, you may want to invest in a toy for those moments where performance has "fallen short".


~The Scorpion King~

lmonique 41F

12/11/2005 2:58 pm

thanks for the advice scorpion, we have been in contact this past week and i decided it would be best just ot let it go. i found myself becoming emotionally invested and not really knowing why or HOW it happened. our conflicting work schedules are definitely factors working against us but neither of us have control over that so... it is what it is. he's a nice enough guy, so i don't wish him any ill will, but if your paramount reason for hooking up is for sex you really have to be on your A-game evertime or you run the risk of losing your partner. oh well, on to bigger and better things. thanks again!

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