Is it wrong?  

lizalovesme 48F
3 posts
12/1/2005 1:04 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is it wrong?


Im not sure what tech.. is wrong with admireing another woman to the point of want. I have always wanted to be with a woman but have considered it cheating does anyon have any comments or experiance and advice for me...

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

12/1/2005 2:10 am

I have never concidered myself bi- but there was this one woman I lusted after, I do not know why, but something about her made me want her, but I never acted on it.


liv_learn_laugh 41M
4 posts
12/1/2005 7:42 pm

that's hard to say. are you looking for someone to just say it's ok so you don't feel guilty? if that's the case then it's probably wrong. your profile says you have a boyfriend, have you talked with him about it? how does he feel? if you don't talk to him about it you probably should rethink your relationship. if you have a good relationship with him and trust each other then maybe he'll be ok with it. then I say if you are both ok with it then there is nothing wrong. but if you are just going to go sneak around behind his back then it's not so much that you wanting another women is wrong but you are not doing anything different than if it was another man you wanted.

that's the way i vew it atleast


rm_1955slowhand 61M
22 posts
12/2/2005 2:04 pm

YOU SOUND LIKE YOU ARE JUST EXPLORING YOU SEXUALITY. YOU MUST TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. YOU CANT DENY YOUR SELF THE ADVATAGE OF KNOWING YOURSELF.IF YOU DO NOT YOU WILL ALWAYS WONDER ABOUT IT AND WIND UP DOING MORE DAMAGE TO YOURSELF AND ANYBODY YOU ARE WITH. I KNOW I AM 50 YRS OLD AND NOW I FEEL THAT I HAVE MISSED OUT ON SO MUCH BECAUSE I WAS AFRAID TO EXPLORE AND TO ENJOY MY SEXUALITY FOR WHAT IT IS. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 4 TIMES AND NEVER FOUND THE SEXUAL FULFILMENT THAT I WANT I HAVE TO SNEEK SROUND TO GET IT.DONT DO THAT TO YOURSELF.


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