The Musings of a Mistress...  

lizalickem4u 58F
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6/1/2006 4:19 am

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The Musings of a Mistress...

I thought I would give this posting to my blog on a daily basis a try...not that I'm all that concerned or interested in how many people really READ my blog posts but just to see what it's like to pose my thoughts and musings for all to read...

I've been contemplating what it would be like to have a live in BDSM slave...yes, I "dabble" in BDSM. Oh yes, the leather/lace deal, spiked-heeled (4 and 5 inches) whips, chains, ropes, paddles...oh yes, there is another side of me for sure...there is a difference between a submissive and a slave...just in case there are those of you out there that are wondering what in the world is this lunatic going on and on about...

A submissive serves by mutual agreement, gives of him/herself by desire and has a say in what activities are indulged. A submissive can be "collared" by the Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress as can be a slave but the service is more of a power exchange, a mutually agreeable arrangement between two consenting adults.

A slave serves totally and completely, unconditionally without any say as to what happens to him/her. A person who is bound to servitude as chattel...yes, nothing more than a piece of property to a Master/Mistress.

So, now that I've laid a bit of ground work as to a submissive and a slave...I've been contemplating what it would be like to have a live-in, 24/7 slave. Part of this is due to the desperation of my friend that I posted to my blog yesterday (Wednesday). For some reason since I met this guy, I've been giving thought to taking him and making him a slave. He would come and live with me and serve me at my whim...he would go to work as he would have to have an income to pay me rent or for his housing and food...which means he would have to turn over his money to me each paycheck but I would make sure whatever financial obligations he had were met and then take my portion...maybe give him an allowance...he would remain naked when he was at the house unless I otherwise instructed him to be dressed.

He would serve me as a sex slave...now don't get all excited for this guy because my idea of a sex slave is way different than those of you thinking, hey, she's going to have him around to fuck when the mood strikes her...not exactly...I would have him around to sexual torture and tease him, to fuck him upon occasion but to also set him to all my naughty, nasty and very deviant fantasies...some I have already acted out with others and yes, even introduced this guy to his first sensual bondage scene/encounter(see previous blog posts)...but there is so much more...sometimes he would be sent to a closet when I have company or entertain other men...he might be able to hear me having sex with another man...

Then there is the chores of the house he would be responsible for...like a child he would have cleaning duties, chores around the house that would have to meet with my approval and inspection. Oh yes, there would be definite punishment if he didn't comply or something wasn't done to the standard that I demand...

He would have his own room which would be inspected upon occasion...and again, he would go to work as anyone else does and be expected to conduct himself as a gentleman when in public.

I would even let him have a female friend besides myself every now and then...oh yes, I would definitely help him out with screening these pathetic creatures called women that he falls so madly in love with from here on AdultFriendFinder...maybe with a little female intuitiveness and guidance, he might just find THE gal of his dreams...then he could establish himself in a relationship and eventually move into a "happily ever after" kind of life...but until that time he would live under my control and direction...

Course there are all manners of twists and spins on this scenario...and I find myself constantly questioning the simple fact of do I want to really share my "space" with someone even if they are here in a slave capacity? This slave wouldn't necessarily interrupt MY life as it is...but then in little ways it would...I enjoy my privacy and my ability to be spontaneous...I would have to be more responsible if I had a slave but then probably no more responsible than I am with my little dog and cat...yes, a slave would be on their level...

And then my thoughts return to my friend...his naivity with regard to these online creatures that woo him and give him hope of a fuller life...a more complete life...I wonder if he would be better off in my care and custody where he wouldn't have to be alone all the time, left to himself...he says the loneliness is what gets to him...he doesn't have to have the sex, just the friendship, the companionship, to be wanted and needed and give the same in return...you know the elusive fantasy of finding that ONE woman thing again...yes, I would help him realize so much if he served at my whim...but who would be getting the better end of that deal? Would it really help him or hinder him in his self development...I'm beginning to think at this juncture it certainly couldn't hurt...

Ah the musings of a Mistress...can you hear the whack of the riding crop on bare skin....hmmmmmmm so deviously delicious!!!

P.S. This could/would work with a woman...many women feel that if they give up that unconditional control to/of their lives they would become complete...actuality is that they only put off the inevitable of having to deal with and live life on their own...living and serving a Master/Mistress would be very beneficial to some as a self-discovery/life learning experience to prepare for life on their own...just my personal observation/opinion.


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