The Age Factor  

lizalickem4u 58F
1836 posts
6/7/2006 4:30 am

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6/11/2006 9:20 am

The Age Factor

Do you how much mail I get from MALES between the ages of 19 - 35? All those younger guys want to fuck an "older woman." Which I'm flattered to a point...thing is I simply can't get there in my thought process...I've tried but there is no sexual appeal.

I've tried to figure out the "why" I feel this way and I've not come up with a valid reason other than the sexual attraction is just NOT there for me.

Have I tried to be with a younger man? Yes, several times and nothing...basically it came down to going through the motions, using lots of lubricant which happens sometimes but for the most part when a man turns me on the natural wetness flows...the sexual attraction just isn't there...

I had a revelation yesterday while at work, surveying the newest recruits, the summer office help that is stationed around my work area...they are nice, good looking YOUNG men, but that's just it, they are YOUNG.

I had one of my oldest son's friends flirt with me once when he was a bit loopy from drinking...I honestly didn't know what to first I was a bit freaked out but then I tried to see what the attraction for this young man was...I couldn't get there and that was 10 years I'm working on it...

But back to my revelation of the young man and sexual desire...I finally felt a glimmer of sexual excitement when I walked past this one young man's office...I had first approached him over some small office chit chat which I learned he did appreciate...purely innocent and no sexual connotations but yesterday I saw him in a different was a glitch on the whole radar and all I could do was smile...a tingle in the pussy and it was gone...but it was there...I felt I could approach and fuck this young man but why? Why would I really want to? What would really be the attraction? Yes, I'm sure I could "train" him to be the lover I had always dreamed of...well not reallly because there is no such lover...

The YOUNGER MAN, why am I just NOT attracted? Is it simply a matter of opening my mind and allowing myself to feel, to actually see them in a sexual way?

I should probably start with their cocks...I am such a cock worshipper...but that's heading into another blog post in and of itself...the magnificent cock...

So, I'm thinking about it, pondering the reasons and excuses that keep me from desiring to invite one of the YOUNG ones over to play...the youngest man I've been with that I can recall is was during a party or group and I knew I didn't have to "be" with him one on one other than right there and then fucking...mindless fucking...perform fucking...sometimes that's what it is all about to me, performing...getting the mind to go on automatic pilot and just let go of the sex, give that pussy all the fucking and sucking that she wants...

So, for all you YOUNG guys that keep sending me notes...try not to be too discouraged though some of you really need to work on your profiles and definitely the approach notes...I'm THINKING about the possibilities...JUST THINKING...I MAKE NO PROMISES!!!!

lizalickem4u 58F

6/8/2006 4:06 pm

Thanks for the "response?" Not really sure what your lengthy comment regarding finding my blog/profile had to do with the topic at hand in this blog post other than you're just a few years older than I am...I suppose the similarities are there to some extent or another...but then we can always find something in common when venturing forth here in cyberland.

As far as showing you anything or considering you as one that I would enjoy meeting...why don't you send me a note to my AdultFriendFinder email account and we'll enjoy a more private exchange and see if there really is anything worth exploring.

Louise_slut64 75F

6/8/2006 9:55 pm

It must be just a matter of taste. At 65 i love turning on these younger men and i love taking them to bed with me. I also have a desire for black men so they have all been younger black men. Some women don't find that attractive at all but i have had a desire for black men since i was a teen. Now i'm living it and i wouldn't have it any other way. By the way Liza,at least 4 of my black male friends find you very attractive and would love a shot at you. Have you ever considered going black?

10D76 39M  
9 posts
6/11/2006 8:14 am

I bet it would work with me but you probably wont even try.

lizalickem4u 58F

6/11/2006 9:20 am

Honestly, there has to be some appeal there for me to try...yes, I'm sure it would work with a younger man if I were "willing" to try but you're right, I'm NOT willing to try right now...just THINKING on it all...haven't found the right young man with the right appeal. Thanks for your note.

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