Don't Call Me a Slut, Because...  

lizalickem4u 58F
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7/17/2006 4:36 pm

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Don't Call Me a Slut, Because...


Don't call me a slut just because you want to...don't ASSUME anything...if I ask or tell you to call me a slut that's one thing but don't EVER assume I want you to call me YOUR slut, YOUR whore, YOUR cunt...just because I'm a Nasty Girl doesn't give you free reign to go off in directions not discussed...ground work Baby, you have to lay the ground work...you have to find out if I want YOU to talk dirty to me...if I want YOU to call me names...if I want YOU to make me YOUR bitch!!!! With that all being said, here's where I'm going with this blog post...

I was talking to some girlfriends...these would be "nasty" girlfriends or gals in the swinging lifestyle. Very open-minded, sexually confident gals about how they like to "play" with different partners. Always interesting when three nasty gals can compare notes on one specific male partner...and for this particular blog post, this one male partner that all three of us have had the pleasure of playing with at one time or another has a penchant for "dominating" his partner of the moment...or his attempt to do so was what we were discussing.

(Please note, names have been changed to protect the no-so innocent!!) Our mutual male friend, Bob, decided to take a "rougher" approach with his partner of the moment...Bob is a really nice-mannered, easy going guy but his behavior seemed to take on a kind of ugly temper of late...he started talking really "dirty" calling his partner a cunt, slut, whore...and then being rather rough in touch and with his cock...placing his hands around his partner's neck and applying some pressure while calling her names and ramming his rather large cock between her legs...while some gals enjoy some rough play, most do not...and quite honestly at a swingers' party rough play just really should be left at the door...there's enough going on without an added "scene" or two...anyway, the three of us were talking and comparing notes of sorts...I guess where I'm going with this blog is that the behavior of our friend, Bob, was totally out of character for him and thus was not at all appealing...I, for one, don't mind my partner to call me names (i.e.slut, cunt, whore, bitch) which I know him a bit more and am more comfortable with our line of play...but the occasion swinging friend I don't really enjoy being called names or treated in a rougher manner...while I can and do get out there in what most consider kinky play, that kind of play is reserved for those I have built a trust with in our sex play...in other words I don't see Bob often enough to really allow him to get into that particular "space" with me...

So, my gal pals and I were talking and I must say, our mutual friend, Bob, basically misused the term "slut" in his swinging play and almost caused himself some embarressment because both gals could hardly contain their amusement at his attempts...in other words, they said upfront they did not like him using those terms and being that rough with them...which he quickly accomodated and returned to the kind of fucking we all have come/cum to know and enjoy from our friend, Bob. Poor Bob...he wants to be that Dominant Bad Man...just difficult to get there for some...though I'm sure he's come/cum across some willing playmates...just have to pick and choose the crowd you bring that side of you out in...

Bottomline...discuss the desire to use the dirty name calling with your partner...don't ASSUME your partner wants you to call her your bitch, your slut, your whore...communicate Sweetie...talk to me, tell me what you are wanting...you never can tell...I might just go for it or one better you!!!!! This goes for rough play as well...before you head down that path...could save you some ackward moments, not to mention interferring or interrupting some very enjoyable playtime.

Just my "humble" opinion you know one nasty gal to another and so on and so forth...

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