What on your mind, South Africa  

littlelotta_za 41F
7 posts
11/13/2005 10:31 pm

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What on your mind, South Africa

I'd like to know what is you on mind South Africa. If you're local, no matter where in the world you find yourself, lets hear from you.

Ladies - I have a question for you....how do you know which guys to take up on their offer and which to ignore? I'm keen to have some fun but am worried. Have any ladies been in a position where they've changed their minds after committing to a meeting?

Guys - I have a question for you too, ......does no really mean no or is that your que to try a little harder. If a lady tells you she feels uncomfortable and wants to change her mind, but you 're cock locked and ready to roll, what would you do or say?

Please give me your comments....I'd appreciate any feedback, advice etc on how to handle the situation.


cozybay 48M

11/14/2005 12:57 am

Well I would say oh bugger if I was cock locked and ready to go, but ultimately if you have said no or you are uncomfortable your gut feel has told you to break contact, make sure of your safety first, unfortunately you do get a few who mess it up for everyone else.

equitiestrader 49M

11/14/2005 1:04 am

It's simple, NO is NO. I have been in that position once before. I respected her wishes and when the sex started, it was everything I wanted and more. As to what to say, there is nothing to say because the lady is not comfortable was sex right now. Rather set up another date and I'm sure it will go better.

equitiestrader 49M

11/14/2005 1:10 am

A question for you also. I would like "no strings attached" relationships but there always seems to be. What exactly does "no strings attached" mean?

rm_HornyBiHubby 52M
9 posts
11/15/2005 4:47 am

got to agree - no means no. if you are both not ready then wait until you are. sex is there to be enjoyed by BOTH of you.

mice1965 51M

11/15/2005 11:02 pm

No meens no, its is hard to turn and go but keep in touch someting can happen on a later stage. Respect is the main thing, always respect her and her feelings.

allforubabe2 45M
4 posts
11/16/2005 4:44 am

It seems to be a misconception that no means fight for it!Anybody can decide when and where to stop. I have stopped feeling uncomfortable and anyone should have and retain that right. I think the key is respect for a women and yourself otherwise we can become beastly animalistic which degrades what we pride ourselves on being intelligent beings with emotions and respect for others and not just a primal instinct!

somefuntogive 37M

11/17/2005 8:18 am

Hi I agree No meens NO. "No strings" do you mean that we have sex and we make contact again when you feel we have to and never comunicate in between, I know what you are looking for.

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