What would you say for a ....  

lithiumrose 37F
260 posts
7/31/2006 9:28 am

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8/5/2006 1:13 am

What would you say for a ....

threesome?

Ohhhh.... errrmmm Can I watch?


I had a call this noon from a galfriend who needed a friend. I came to her and had to cancel my date for the night.

She was in pain and she needed a hug and someone to listen to her.

He - on the other hand - I don't need to explain to him. I have my reasons. Don't bothered about it.

I feel guilty - if I left her - she would be upset. She needed a friend. If I had went on a dinner date with him - I felt upset because I wasn;t there for her.

He wont accept my apologies.

That sucks.

I can't help it if a friend needs a friend. That's what friends are for. To be a friend who is there for you. I am sorry you think I am bullshitting you and playing around but hey - I can't dictate how and who should be upset and when.

I am sorry I don't have other free time with you - because I promised two different friends I would be there for them ... even if one says "Can you act like my girlfriend just for a few hours?" or the other had not seen me since the week before.

I am not a time waster. I wanted to make up but you didnt want my apology, so that is there.

You move on. I move on.

That's that.

the end.
fin.


rm_Spices1971 45M
12 posts
7/31/2006 10:07 am

well, if the guy has a big enough heart, he should understand. friendship is really important and would always cherish a friend for being there when needed. Good move...


IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
7/31/2006 11:34 am

I agree with you lithium. Things happen in life and plans can change on a moments notice.

People that act like that are just selfish. Women do it to guys as well, so your not alone on this.

I would have thanked you for at least calling and had been more curteous about your dilemna.

There's always another time for resheduling a date.

Meanwhile, it's guys like this that give us "other" guys a bad .


IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
7/31/2006 11:37 am

By the way.

Next time I get asked to be in a threesome, you're more than welcome to watch. *S*

I won't mind.


rm_spectraguy26 45M
12 posts
7/31/2006 8:22 pm

well maybe the guy had a big plan for u ..something nice..but anyway if he wants to impress u... he should have understood yr feeling n yr thinking...nice to see u writing again...pls do more often...thanks.. take care bye


lithiumrose 37F

7/31/2006 9:08 pm

    Quoting rm_spectraguy26:
    well maybe the guy had a big plan for u ..something nice..but anyway if he wants to impress u... he should have understood yr feeling n yr thinking...nice to see u writing again...pls do more often...thanks.. take care bye
Even so... I would make up to him. I know he travels and he might not come over to the country in a few months time - but still ... I would have made sure I would see him because I promised I would. I don't break my promises unless you are dodgy, or someone is in trouble or I am sick.

I had broken a date once because I was too sick. The guy was kind enough to say - sure - we can meet next time. Least, give me that chance. Nothing more nothing less.


lithiumrose 37F

7/31/2006 9:17 pm

    Quoting IviesBidesJuste:
    I agree with you lithium. Things happen in life and plans can change on a moments notice.

    People that act like that are just selfish. Women do it to guys as well, so your not alone on this.

    I would have thanked you for at least calling and had been more curteous about your dilemna.

    There's always another time for resheduling a date.

    Meanwhile, it's guys like this that give us "other" guys a bad .
lol ... makes me wonder too if I am selfish because I dropped the date night like hotcake to be with a friend who just want a willing ear and a hug?


lithiumrose 37F

7/31/2006 9:18 pm

    Quoting rm_Spices1971:
    well, if the guy has a big enough heart, he should understand. friendship is really important and would always cherish a friend for being there when needed. Good move...
hugs thanks


LeninRuntsBurrs 42F

8/1/2006 8:34 pm

if it was the guy in your shoes, he would have done the same. so these are the selfish buggers who shouts, "women come to me when i command so, but when i have something to do with my friend, you go sit in a corner." Exaggeration I know... well...

Plans can be planned again. Doesn't necessarily have to go through.

Or the positive side, u r so hot, he was realllllyyy hoping it would go through wahahhaahhaahaha.


lithiumrose 37F

8/1/2006 9:40 pm

    Quoting LeninRuntsBurrs:
    if it was the guy in your shoes, he would have done the same. so these are the selfish buggers who shouts, "women come to me when i command so, but when i have something to do with my friend, you go sit in a corner." Exaggeration I know... well...

    Plans can be planned again. Doesn't necessarily have to go through.

    Or the positive side, u r so hot, he was realllllyyy hoping it would go through wahahhaahhaahaha.
lol. sounds like the ex-bf. annoying bugger... oh well... c'est la vie

am not hot ...


milady_de_winter 43F

8/4/2006 10:51 am

Sweetie,

You did the right thing and beleive me i am sure you are appreciated by your girlfriend

As for the guy- its sad... he ought to understand, besides its not like he is the love of your life or your steady BF.... but having said that i hope he gets back to you and all is fine...if not then he is just being selfish and you don't need someone like that

If the roles were reversed...i am sure you would have understood...but he...Ahem??? I rest my case

Ciao


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