Let's dig for gold  

lithiumrose 38F
260 posts
8/1/2006 10:43 pm

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8/9/2006 8:26 am

Let's dig for gold

Ironic.

Some women called me a gold-digger. How am I a gold-digger? I barely like manual work - especially digging and you have to pan to look for gold anyways!

It's hard being a gold-digger when my request are so simple. Pay for my cab ride. Feed me whatever food i fancy at the moment. And if you please, can I have this book?

I don't ask for expensive watches - like rolex - or ask for channel or gucci or something stuff.

So, someone who asked for those three simple things - cab fare / food / and a possible book makes me a gold-digger? And what make the others who asked for rolex/ diamond rings / channel bag / some 2000RM shoes then? Not a gold-digger?

Am I a freeloader?

I don't think so. Sure, I like fine dining. I love to eat. I don't mind one takes me to Pasifica and have a long dinner there or decides to cook me dinner just so he can prove he can cook.

But one thing for sure though - I never would bring my friends when it was dinner for two. All the guys I had dinner with sorta dislike gals who brings her friends to dine with him.

Do I pass a guy around after I have a taste of him?

Haha. I am stingy. I am discreet so I don't wanna tell who I see. I only broke that lil discreetion once because he was the only person I knew was nearby and would help me. If the guys I met were seeing someone else, so be it. I am not going to ask. If he tells me, that is fine, else, I don't have any rights to know. Afterall, the relationships I am in are rather discreet and no string attached.

Do I see men who are attached?

For the time being - yes. And I know the rules. It's discreet and I don't leave marks.

Do I get attached to them ?

In a fashion, I am attached to them. Sure, I have to guard my heart from the possibility of getting hurt but to have passion with a guy, you have to give a lil something ... a little bit of an emotion to make the passion worthwhile. I certainly don't like sleeping with someone who I have no feelings for. By the way, even lust is regarded as a form of emotion.

I never have expectation in such discreet relationships. Sure, I love being with the guy. But I can't see him all the time. He has constrains such as time, work and family. If one hold expectations, well, we are bound to be hurt. Sure, they gives us lil hopes, but hopes are like candlelights. You can blow it away and we be blinded by the darkness.

I just go with the flow and enjoying it all

And I am thankful I met guys who are so nice to me, even if one of them laughed at me and another scold me for being a moron. Ok, so the laughing and scolding lasted 5 mins and then I get pampered because you can only be angry at someone in pain for a short while. I have learnt my lesson, C, and I won't let any drunk guy carry me and dropped me on my hip.


LeninRuntsBurrs 42F

8/3/2006 6:03 am

lust is a new feeling i am trying to comprehend. i don't understand it, i don't know what to do with it. all i know is, to "be" with someone, yes some form of feeling is there, not love for sure, but some form of feeling to make moments intense.


lithiumrose 38F

8/3/2006 8:17 am

    Quoting LeninRuntsBurrs:
    lust is a new feeling i am trying to comprehend. i don't understand it, i don't know what to do with it. all i know is, to "be" with someone, yes some form of feeling is there, not love for sure, but some form of feeling to make moments intense.
lol ... lust is a new feeling. But there is one guy that I adore. And I know it would hurt my feeling when he goes away, but still I foolishly adore him. However so, I won't hold regrets. Go with the flow. Enjoy while it last


mave1222 39M
22 posts
8/3/2006 9:20 am

hmm... mostly feelings comfort on each other is the objective yaa..


IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/3/2006 11:33 am

Hi Lithium,

Doesn't sound like your a gold digger to me. And take my word for it, I know a gold digger when I see it. I've had to deal with plenty of them around here.

When other women make the comment that you are one, just remember, it's a competition thing that females come up with. They probably are one themselves.

Speaking of cab rides. That shouldn't be a problem anyway, in KL it's so dirt cheap to get a cab versus renting a car, unless you want to take a drive out of town. But even then, to take a couple days trip to Singapore, it's still cheaper to take the train.


lithiumrose 38F

8/3/2006 5:33 pm

    Quoting IviesBidesJuste:
    Hi Lithium,

    Doesn't sound like your a gold digger to me. And take my word for it, I know a gold digger when I see it. I've had to deal with plenty of them around here.

    When other women make the comment that you are one, just remember, it's a competition thing that females come up with. They probably are one themselves.

    Speaking of cab rides. That shouldn't be a problem anyway, in KL it's so dirt cheap to get a cab versus renting a car, unless you want to take a drive out of town. But even then, to take a couple days trip to Singapore, it's still cheaper to take the train.
If I was one, then all the guys I had been seeing would drop me like hot coal. lol. The cab ride reference was usually for me to go to see him in KL and then sending me home again. My place isn't that close to KL and people in the bus tend to look at you too often and it's not comfortable waiting at the bus-stop since the one closest to mine is under a tree or two.

Lol.... I don't know about trains.... I took a bus once to Singapore. That was fun. I got a space all to myself and a great view too!

hugs


milady_de_winter 44F

8/4/2006 10:45 am

Hi Sweetie,

Lol- you know what they say- LMFAO Sour grapes....those people who accuse you for gold digging probably would do worse had they been with the same guy...

Hmmmm....people who like to bitch about others are just sad jealous lonely people- be happy with yourself and enjoy the sex

Ciao


lithiumrose 38F

8/5/2006 1:20 am

    Quoting milady_de_winter:
    Hi Sweetie,

    Lol- you know what they say- LMFAO Sour grapes....those people who accuse you for gold digging probably would do worse had they been with the same guy...

    Hmmmm....people who like to bitch about others are just sad jealous lonely people- be happy with yourself and enjoy the sex

    Ciao
LOL.... I bitch too ... but then I bitch about many things and not about people. What's the point really, to bitch about someone, when you can bitch about the lousy drivers in KL or the rates the taxi drivers are charging us.

I do enjoy the sex and the company lol. I am happy

Ciao bella donna


IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/6/2006 10:53 am

    Quoting lithiumrose:
    If I was one, then all the guys I had been seeing would drop me like hot coal. lol. The cab ride reference was usually for me to go to see him in KL and then sending me home again. My place isn't that close to KL and people in the bus tend to look at you too often and it's not comfortable waiting at the bus-stop since the one closest to mine is under a tree or two.

    Lol.... I don't know about trains.... I took a bus once to Singapore. That was fun. I got a space all to myself and a great view too!

    hugs
I took the train from KL to Singapore, twice.

Only because I was told that the bus drivers drive like maniacs and they have had crashes. Am told the time it takes for the trip is about the same anyway.

Nevertheless, If I was in KL and had a car, I would always drive out to pick up someone. I have no problem with that at all.


Jassy943_2 42F

8/10/2006 12:44 pm

HOW IRONIC LITHIUM HUN. You are staying outskirt of KL so transportation is a little hard for you. I am laughing so hard here lithium hun but hey we too once were bitten and twice shy ....so we have learned our lessons well from you! thanks!


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