Those Special Spots That Make Me Moist  

lissi888888 52F
1330 posts
9/9/2006 8:24 am

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Those Special Spots That Make Me Moist

I started thinking the last couple days about what a lover should know about me. Does the profile say it all? Nope...it sure doesn't. But I don't want to put everything in a profile...where's the fun in that? I don't want my lover to have to guess everything either. So what to do...what to do.

I figured I could write a list.

My List:

There is no such thing as too much kissing. Hold my face in your hands gently. Stare into my eyes. Then kiss me deeply...passionately. Passionate kisses stir the libido and just ask for me to roam with my hands. Start with 'em to get the motor running and then sneak 'em in here and there as the positions allow.

Nibble, lick and suck on my neck, upper back and shoulders. Pay special attention to sucking certain areas on my neck...you'll hear me moan and you'll know you've hit the spot.

Nibble my ears and then whisper to me so I can feel your breath in my ear when you do it *shivers of excitement*...or better yet growl one of those deep, drawn out, sexy growls (I'll be wet in seconds with that one).

Touch me all over. Just touch. Sounds funny maybe but gentle roaming hands from top to bottom. *heavy sigh* That kind of exploring gets to me every time.

Spread my legs wide and nibble and kiss my inner calves and thighs from my ankles all the way up. Touch with your hands as well as you are working your way up. Sure you'll want to proceed to kissing, licking, sucking and rubbing the outer lips and then the clit...etc...but start at the feet and work your way up as you work me up. You'll be glad you did. OK...so will I

Kiss, nibble and bite my ass gently...give it some pats and a few slaps...I do like that. Then, if you are so inclined, feel free to explore my ass. I enjoy that as well...very much.

So...that's the start of my list. Wonder how to present it. Maybe print it off and roll it up like a scroll...tied with a red ribbon of course. Somehow laminating it and putting it on the headboard just seems tacky.

What do you think? Should you present your lover with a list of those special winning please do's? Or is it best to just tell them slowly but surely as time goes by?





shybutneedinit 47F

9/9/2006 10:08 am

Well personally, I think it is best to explore each other slowly. Can be really fun that way. Finding out what turns your lover on, turns me on. And when he finds something you like, let it be known for sure. But also goes for something you don't like, let them know. My lover usually knows from my expressions, and moans lol. So keep exploring cause you never know what you will end up liking.


OttawaMan43sum 46M
1967 posts
9/9/2006 4:30 pm

Lissi,

If I were your lover, I think I'd appreciate some info but not the entire set of likes & dislikes...unwrapping a mystery is part of the fun.

As for your above posted list, no real surprises there...I imagine the vast majority of women would agree with your preferences.


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/9/2006 9:52 pm

    Quoting shybutneedinit:
    Well personally, I think it is best to explore each other slowly. Can be really fun that way. Finding out what turns your lover on, turns me on. And when he finds something you like, let it be known for sure. But also goes for something you don't like, let them know. My lover usually knows from my expressions, and moans lol. So keep exploring cause you never know what you will end up liking.
Shy...I agree with you. Gotta keep exploring...always. Each of you knows what you like and that's half the fun of a new lover. You each bring all your experience from before with you into the here and now as well...and that's the other half... This blog actually metamorphasized in direct response to 5 or 6 blogs I read where people were saying they just didn't get what they wanted from their new partners. So I thought on it and figured this was a unique way of presenting yourself


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/9/2006 9:55 pm

    Quoting Pheonix_Dragon:
    I like the scroll idea! But keeping on the headboard sounds practical as a little reminder too. (The foresight of laminating it is quite amazing!)
pheonix...I figured laminating would be essential...what a PITA to have to keep writing it LOL


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/9/2006 9:55 pm

    Quoting Blue_Angel_bbw:
    I'm for the scroll idea .... tacky on the headboard.... not tacky laminating and putting in bedside table
Blue...gotcha...tacky on the headboard...informative in the nightstand.


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/9/2006 10:12 pm

    Quoting OttawaMan43sum:
    Lissi,

    If I were your lover, I think I'd appreciate some info but not the entire set of likes & dislikes...unwrapping a mystery is part of the fun.

    As for your above posted list, no real surprises there...I imagine the vast majority of women would agree with your preferences.
See that's just it Ottawa. What I posted is stuff just about everyone would like I think and maybe some just don't know it. I know what works for me and anyone I'm involved with would know that in pretty short order as well...just through a little bit of exploring (I am a big fan of taking the time to do that). I think we all have individual likes and dislikes way above and beyond that which was listed and that's the neatest thing. Listening for those cues. Finding out what your partner really really enjoys. It's all part and parcel to the joy of sex. Yes...to me sex can be a joy...not just a release...an adventure really. Being able to enjoy that intimacy with someone...that takes just a little time...but it's so way worth it. Nice to see you in my blog hon


madiemoon 51F
2090 posts
9/10/2006 8:48 am



i like to expore and be explored

hi lissi ltns girlie


smackyman 45M
3843 posts
9/10/2006 9:44 am

If I catch you wearing a tshirt that says 'Lick Me I'm Irish' on St Paddys day I'm going to print off the list and follow it to the letter step by step...


countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
9/10/2006 11:24 am

I think that it's a good idea to know what your lover's likes and dislikes are ahead of time and vice versa. Makes the time together so much more enjoyable!

~Country~


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/11/2006 8:18 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I go with the flow..but after a bit..if I ain't flowing..I can sure be giving some advice..not a bad idea..the scroll..lol.
Mzhuny...no doubt about that. Right there with you on that one. the scroll...well it still cracks me up *giggle*


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/11/2006 8:41 am

    Quoting madiemoon:


    i like to expore and be explored

    hi lissi ltns girlie
OMG...madie...how the hell are ya?????? So glad to see you!!!! Damn...talk about old home week. You're the 4th or 5th that I've re-connected with in just as many days. So way cool


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/11/2006 8:43 am

    Quoting smackyman:
    If I catch you wearing a tshirt that says 'Lick Me I'm Irish' on St Paddys day I'm going to print off the list and follow it to the letter step by step...
Smackyman...You would have a VERY full and very FUN St. Paddy's Day then my dear. We Irish chicks really do appreciate a man that wants to celebrate the holiday is a grand fashion *note to self...get me that freakin shirt*


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/11/2006 8:51 am

    Quoting countryheart_71:
    I think that it's a good idea to know what your lover's likes and dislikes are ahead of time and vice versa. Makes the time together so much more enjoyable!
Damn straight countryheart. It makes the starting all the more enjoyable when you've got that little bit o' knowledge.


daighi 49M
1449 posts
9/12/2006 10:51 pm

Taking mental notes here....lissi likes her ass to be explored!...duly noted...

Oh & the other things in your list....?......well i just do those as part of the course anyway,so no need to keep notes there!

Those files are locked away safe in the filing cabinet of my mind.

Has anyone ever givin you a "Tongue Bath"?It's where you get licked ALL over with just my mouth & tongue,& i DO mean all over!..

Hugs,

D. XXXXX

BTW,you have a great smile,somewhat like the Mona Lisa!..lol XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/22/2006 5:56 am

    Quoting spunky11961:
    It sure would help to know at least a little right from the start!
    And the laminate and post ont the head board thing, that was great
    ~spunky
spunky...the laminate and post on the headboard thing still gives me a giggle...every time I read it LOL


lissi888888 52F
1401 posts
9/22/2006 6:01 am

    Quoting daighi:
    Taking mental notes here....lissi likes her ass to be explored!...duly noted...

    Oh & the other things in your list....?......well i just do those as part of the course anyway,so no need to keep notes there!

    Those files are locked away safe in the filing cabinet of my mind.

    Has anyone ever givin you a "Tongue Bath"?It's where you get licked ALL over with just my mouth & tongue,& i DO mean all over!..

    Hugs,

    D. XXXXX

    BTW,you have a great smile,somewhat like the Mona Lisa!..lol XX
Daighi...hmmm...a tongue bath sounds absolutely divine...I'm afraid I may wiggle too much though. Might have to tie me down

Thanks for the compliment . And you know that makes sense...moaning Lisa...Mona Lisa...such a similarity there . (BTW...My name is actually Lisa hon).


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