lipstickjungle 40F
18 posts
9/4/2006 8:50 am

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9/4/2006 10:30 pm


Ever since the summer weather started disappearing a few weeks ago, I have been in a funk. It doesn't help that I am learning to accept the fact my ex and I are no longer together...the fact that I still have to deal with him because of parenting responsibilities is just the hardest part of it all. I hate it.

Can I ask a question? Why do people send cut and paste responses? I don't mean to embarass anyone in particular but seeing how I took the time to write a well thought out ad... sending me something that reeks of cut and paste isn't going to get a response. Also starting a response with I don't match up with you but I want to fuck isn't enticing for me neither.

Last night I was chatting with this guy I met on CL earlier in the summer. There are only two draw backs with him... (1) He's 21 and (2) he's nice and all but intellectually he's so/so... I attritube that to his age because he will well mannered and easy going. I would love to give him a chance because I miss sex with a man... however the more I connect with men I may want to sleep with... the more scared I am that it's too soon for me. Is that crazy?

I'm not looking for another relationship but at the same time I don't want to be a one night stand. I have only had one of those in my entire life and it shouldn't even last because the sex was 30 seconds LITERALLY (boy was I pissed but that's another story). It's been a long time since I have done casual & open with a man.

On the lady front, the possibilities are looking good! Glad I stayed on here.

rm_greenhorn718 40M
1 post
9/4/2006 5:55 pm

Some people are just into being aggressive for no reason. The way I figure: I look at you, you look at me, we like, we talk. Everything else should just flow naturally. Nothing forced ever feels good.

Definetly take your time. I've gone through the same thing. Better to have standards than regrets.

Stay sexy,

9 posts
9/4/2006 9:55 pm

I'm glad you stayed too! And I agree with greenhorn718. Some people don't realize that being too aggressive is a real turn-off. Definetly take your time, if you're looking too hard you won't find, and/or you'll end up with someone you really don't want and you may have missed a chance with a really awesome person.

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