lilmissexkitten 44F
19 posts
7/14/2005 7:23 am

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So I've been home all week, not through choice but home incapacitated and of course I've been thinking - not always a wise move..

Some things as you know really irritate me and one thing that really does is this statement 'looks unimportant' where on earth has that one come from? Might not be after 10 pints of lager but surely in a sober state you would want to be attracted to a person? Maybe I've gotten that arse about face and AdultFriendFinder needs to offer a paper bag subscription too? Or have I missed that option?

I see it more so like buying clothing, would you buy something that you thought was hideous( yes I understand some peoples dress sense leaves a lot to be desired) then happily wear it even of only once? Yet happy to share body fluids? It bemuses me..

This generally goes hand in hand with size unimportant, boy is it so that in the modern world we are so bedazzled with whats going on that we've lost our senses? Is the sexual machine driven by an on/off switch? Perhaps thats it and I can't find my switch!

The other thing that never ceases to amaze me is the mail that commences 'hi I know you won't like me but...' Well for crying out loud, if I'm not going to like you why firstly waste my time and why oh why waste your own? We spend too long being too young, too old or incapable..

Well I guess my theory of aiming as high as you can and not settling for second best was sunk when Noah survived?

Warm wishes to you all x

lilmissexkitten 44F
1 post
7/14/2005 8:42 am

Just to clarify by size I mean physical size not genitalia size

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
7/14/2005 9:16 am

First things first...welcome to BlogLand.

Perhaps people say anything to get responses then weed them out. Then again, if it is something written by an American male...well that lot humps anything that moves. BTW, under nationality and sex, my passport says No Comment.

[blog talldarkavg1]

rm_GetDeepInYou 52M
8 posts
7/14/2005 11:24 am

LOL....small membered, unconfided, indesive men need good lovin to dear.

ROFL....hey...they have to try something. Even if it does not attracte you.

JusteGiberBahts 46M
18 posts
7/14/2005 4:36 pm

everyone needs to read this I think you make some good points.

rm_jonemore 56M
14 posts
7/14/2005 5:31 pm

Would like to welcome you to blogs.
I am sure you will be up there with the best very soon.


7/14/2005 5:58 pm

Aim too high and you might be hit by your own arrows! Lol. Looks don't matter? They must be blind or simply hoping that "their" looks don't matter. I for one hope that size does matter. No you havn't lost your senses but you may have wandered into a trailer park. Why you ask, do some men start off with "you won't like me"? Well, lets call it optimism, after all at least one woman loved them and they are hoping that they won't have to call the next one mommy.
P.S. you won't like me.....see at least I left it to the end.

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
7/14/2005 6:55 pm

I love your sense of humor lilmiss...don't think you have to worry about the on/off switch....seems you have things pretty well wired so far.....welcome to the blogs.

Jeepster93 55M
29 posts
7/16/2005 9:12 am

Hmmmm....looks unimportant huh! Well I'm pretty sure that the initial attraction is a handsome/pretty face so of course they're important. Then again what one person thinks is beautiful another might not like at all so even if we think we are ugly it doesn't mean that somebody somewhere won't like us.
At the end of the day looks are important but maybe not quite as much as personality.
Hope that made sense to somebody.

rm_patwantsit2 45M
4 posts
9/5/2005 8:41 am

One thing i know is that i once had the honor of talking to this lady.Ok, so it was only in the chat room and she had been going through some rough times.But in them few moments of conversation with her i felt she was a genuine person with a heart,feelings and emotions.Not a machine nor a big headed person who writes rubbish on profiles.This lady is about being someone.A human being. This lady would make a great person to take for lunch, go down the pub or even take a walk with.She has lived and can share all of that with the right people/person. The brief chat we had makes me wish i had spent more time with her to learn more about the kitten inside and help bring the playful claws and make her smile.Sometimes the simple things mean so much, not just for her but for both parties.Just stop and look at her.You are crazy if you cannot see just how special she really is.
If given the opportunity to get to know her ,would i take it?

Silly question.

haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
11/10/2005 12:30 am

As a paper-bag candidate I very much hope looks are unimportant. But in all seriousness... I think it's a question of what you go for in a person. Personally, I believe body-language is a very important component of attactiveness - the way someone walks, the way they hold themselves, the way they sit, laugh, etc, can be as stimulating as their eyes, nose, boobies or any other feature. It's not just a pose or the way someone looks at one instance in time, but the transitions in between. I think that with a photograph, you're just seeing someone's purely physical appearance, without any (or with very little) body-language, and I'm not saying that can't be very sexy - but that person's body-language can change the impact of the picture, just like a photograph which cuts off below the nose can completely change the impression you get of a person's face.

And I know from experience that some people whose photographs had me absolutely panting with lust left me cold in person, while some people who's photos weren't images of traditional beauty had me straining at the leash when we met - I put this down to their body-language.

tranespotter 47M
2 posts
11/11/2005 6:17 pm

i must say that i agree with what you are saying but the problem is with sex you women hold the strings coz if you say no you mean no we are a little weaker in that area and if someone offers it on a plate we will more than likely take it. Of course evryone should aim high but many are rejected and get down and so to avoid disappoint ment they aim were they know they will succeed. Some of us will fly high others will barely clear the grass

rm_Guy4you355 49M

12/12/2005 3:13 pm

well Miss Kitten,

send you the Txts, no reply??

we were going to meet in B'ham???????

Remenber me the last one?????

Kris, you have me number if you change your mind????


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