New and Don  

likestoplease885 59M
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11/6/2005 8:36 am

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New and Don

I'm new to this site and find it interesting and frustrating. Interesting because what you are looking for could come true. Wonderful, exciting relationships that could bloom into life long friends, great fuck buddies. The possibilites are endless! However, the frustrating part is, according to some responses and the mutual match area in member profiles, that males over, let's say 45, must have some unknown problem(s) that I am not aware of. I don't know what to think. Is it assumed that ALL males over 45 are none-performers, over weight, lazy(I believe one member used the term "dead fuck"), egotistical, self-centered and on and on. Get the pticure? Well.....I don't. Shame on their shortsightedness if they think that. Not all males over 45 are like that. There just possibly could be some males out there, over 45, that are really good lovers; will satisfy their partner sexually and mentally; will ask what they desire, want, need and follow through with it until both are satisfied. (but, you also have to reciprocate to make it enjoyable). Isn't this site the avenue to explore possibilities and break the mold of "the every day normal thinking"? Isn't this the site were fantasies come true?
I don't know what to think about members who state they want to exchange erotic email, so you respond and then you hear nothing back from them. Is this the 'testing the waters' thing, but none of them want to get wet? What's the harm in replying? Erotic email is fun, exciting and mysterious. Isn't that the point?
I don't know what to think about cybersex-what is it? Just another term for erotic email?

Maybe I'm expecting too much from this site. I have hooked up with one person via this site and it was great! However, our schedules have not allowed for an other-soon I hope. But for others I have contacted, a majority of them have not responded-seems kind of rude to me. A few have responded. Some were honest(I appreciate that). Some resonded with "I'm looking for someone younger"-ouch! I don't know what to think! Most have not responded! What should I think?

likestoplease885 59M
4 posts
11/6/2005 1:23 pm

I guess this is what would be on the job training, huh?

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