oral chances  

lightswitch1963 68M/53F
413 posts
5/17/2006 12:23 pm

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5/25/2006 2:11 pm

oral chances

There have been blogs about condoms. But, you can also get AIDS from oral sex. How are you protecting against that? We also count on people to be honest. Maybe I need to go get a test. I have slept with 4 men with my husbands permission. Maybe it is Russian Roulette, but don't like the feeling of condoms, kinda ruins the mood. I am a very firm believer in vinegar. I take a hot bath with extra vinegar afterwards. It is a germ killer.

rm_sexynishaa 31F
8 posts
5/17/2006 12:48 pm

LIFE IS ALL PLAY - ALL FUN . If u have the will , u can always push deep ( the opening or obstacle) and make way !

For me Life is all ESCTASY and FUN . No disaster. No Worry No hurry. Slow push in and push out ( of thoughts) inside ( mind) - i like

- since i am smooth ( behaved) Outside.

Meditate - and have FUN .
do not medicate!!!

rm_tembersbest 51M/51F
11 posts
5/17/2006 1:00 pm

I belive we should never trust anybody when it comes to our own lives.Always protect yourself ,you never really know who anybodys been with.People will say anything you need to hear to have a good time. Just my own personal opinion.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

5/17/2006 11:50 pm


I knew a man in New Mexico who had HIV

Do you know that he never told any of his partners, they just finally caught up with him from alot of the woman he had been with had contracted the HIV.

But thanks to the good lord he is in prison now.

He can't infect anyone else now.

So yes, I would get checked regular.

Lady Bambi

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
5/18/2006 9:48 pm

well, I happen to love vinegar...LOLOL


Catdoc2000 56M

5/19/2006 4:29 am

I'm with you, I always use condoms but still worry about getting something after every encounter. I went to planned parenthood for a discrete test only to find out they had a 2 week wait for an opening. If you've never tried them get some polypropylene (sp) condoms. I believe the Trojan supra is the right name for them, don'thave one with me right now... They transfer body heat and sensation much better than latex!

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
5/25/2006 12:32 pm

This is a great question you pose. What about condoms when it comes to oral sex?

I read that the chances of catching anything orally is something like 1 in 2,000 - but that "1" can be the 5th time or the 2,000th time - never know.

I just don't feel right going without. Like I said in my condom post - I know too many people with STDs and my brother has full blown AIDS - he is 45 years old and dying a pretty slow and ugly death. Maybe he has 6 months - maybe 20 years - each day is hell for him no matter how long he has.

Even with that said, I have to admit - I've got caught up in the heat of the moment a few times over the years and have enjoyed oral sex without a condom. For me, it was fun - but was not worth the risk.

I guess there are no right or wrong answers here. Everybody will do what works for them. I just hope all are safe and don't get an STD or death sentence likes AIDS.

I know - I'm too serious. Sorry about that, but this is a great post and I'll look forward to reading the responses of others.

Kisses and hugs to you! Be safe sweetie!!!!!!!!!! Whisper...

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