Is there a difference and does it really make a damn?  

lickmeqik38 56F
7 posts
10/9/2005 3:45 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is there a difference and does it really make a damn?

For starters, YES, there is a difference. There are "a few extra pounds", "BBW" and then there is "OBESE". Let's make that clear from the start.

A few extra pounds are those size 6 honeys with that little pooch in their belly, maybe from having children, maybe from drinking all that beer every night. Either way, thats a few extra pounds. The nagging extra 5 or 10 pounds that won't go away regardless what you do. Not me, okay?

Obese gals are the ones that haven't seen their own feet in awhile. They don't shave their pussy because, well, they haven't been able to find it under the roll(s) that keep it secluded from view. They wear slip on shoes because they can't reach their shoes to tie them (without help, that is). Did you ever see the movie "...Gilbert Grape"? Remember his mother? Get the picture? Not me either, okay?

BBW is a Big, Beautiful Woman. It means just what it says. We are big (not a size 6 with a little pooch), but we are not obese. We are somewhere in the middle. And I say WE because I am part of the BBW world.

Are all BBW's sexy? Ofcourse not. All size 6 honeys aren't sexy either. I have met a few with faces that would stop a clock, so there!

Alot of men don't care for BBW's. To those men I can only say, you are either insecure or shallow or both. Who wants that in a man? Alot of us (me included) are extremely sexy women; secure in their own bodies and as hot as they come. Are we desperate for attention and eager to jump the first man that pays us some? Hell no! Thats just one of the lies men tell themselves to make them feel superior. I am far from being desperate. I for one am extremely particular about my men. For starters, I demand respect. The same respect that any man would want to receive. Secondly, he has to be the type of person that recognizes beauty when he sees it and the fact that real beauty is not based on a persons dress size. If not, his loss, not mine. Finally, he better be willing and able to seduce me and once he does, he better be able to keep up.

Sexy isn't a look, its an attitude and if you feel sexy, have confidence in yourself, and know you deserve nothing but the best then there is nothing or no one beyond your reach.

Bravo to the men out there that recognize beautiful and sexy in all shapes and sizes. I wouldn't be afraid to bet that those men are the most satisfied in life, emotionally and sexually.

overworkedloon 56M
400 posts
10/10/2005 5:09 pm

Both men and women can be shallow. Everyone suffers from it to some degree.

To me it's more personality than appearance. If I don't like someone the attraction isn't there.

lickmeqik38 56F

10/13/2005 3:01 am

I agree, both can be shallow. I also agree that personality is more important. Personality can be everything if your meeting someone for the right reasons. Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder. You can have the most beautiful woman in the world standing in front of you, or the most handsome man, and if their personality sucks (a bitch, an arrogant smartass, etc) then whats attractive about that? It can change how you see someone drastically.

thick_enough4you 54M

11/20/2005 2:50 pm

I look forward to us hookin up oneday.Wheather your here in the Murfreesboro area or at TSC.Your a very good lookin women!.And I would be honored to be seen with you and Pleasure you in all the ways I know how.We'll just have to see how we click!.I'm by far sure we'll hit it off.Kevin

bluemoutain7575 42M

11/28/2005 10:15 pm


gonzago455 56M

12/24/2005 4:23 pm

I agree with the ideology of not seeing your feet. If a female gets too fat and you can't find her pussy for the rolls, then, that's gross. A little weight is ok. I am 45 and work out around 4-5 times weekly. I am in pretty good shape for my age. I als walk when weather permits. It is a turn off for gals to pretend they are slim and when I go meet them they are not. Anyway, try to stay as healthy as you possibly can and it will reflect upon you. Stay fit. gonzago455

hunting4fun38017 48M

1/28/2006 10:30 pm

E-mail me baby on here i love about 40 miles from you!!

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