First time experiences  

libertybottom 74M
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1/8/2006 6:05 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

First time experiences

Maybe some of you psychologists out there can answer this: Does the first sexual experience determine a persons sexual preferences?

Some background: After getting acquainted, one of the questions I usually ask someone is what was their first sexual experience. Most of the time it was with another male and was at an early age (12 to 14 years old). That was my case.

Our family lived in a small house and I had to share a bed with an older brother. When I was about 10 or 11 years old he would play with my ass, rim me and then finally got around to fucking me. Later when I was about 15 I had an anal sex relation ship with a male cousin. Even after I started dating girls I always wanted to have anal sex with them. Some like it some didnt. It was always a fantisy of mine but after the cousin I had no relationships with men until aout 2 years ago.
So come on psycologists; is my desire to be fucked a result of my early experience or is it in the genes. But that doesnt explain my fascination with big dicks or maybe it does.
You all have a good one.


barry47584 69M
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1/10/2006 7:24 am

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HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

1/12/2006 10:26 am

I do not think so. My first was with a girl, and now at 35 I can't say I hate it, but it is not something I go lookin for. So if your first determines your sexual orientation, then I should be a lesbian,but I am not. But the fact that your brother was your first is the disturbing part. You may turn to sex with men as a way to abuse yourself and make yourself feel dirty like back when your brother was doing it, cause you had to know it was wrong. Like female victims, they either stop having sex all together, or start screwing every joe blow,as a form of self abuse, due to the pain inside.
Or you could be full of shit and you wrote this just to get attention cause you thought your brother fucking your ass would be good reading..............


libertybottom 74M

1/12/2006 4:04 pm

Well hotnbothered you do make some good points but I dont remember feeling dirty when I had sex with my brother. I just remember missing it when he moved away to go to school. Of course old memories are sometimes not as real as we think. Even though you are not a lesbian, Do you still enjoy being with another woman?


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

1/12/2006 9:31 pm

NOPE, DID IT AGAIN, AND IT DID NOT TURN ME ON, COULD HAVE BEEN CAUSE HER PUSSY WAS SOOOO FREAKIN NASTY.... LOL


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