SeXpectations  

letsfucknasty2 52M
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10/14/2005 6:19 am

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SeXpectations


I am beginning to get a better handle on the whole AdultFriendFinder demographic. It is such an interesting study of people and their sexual expectations and desires. It is a commentary about what we all hope to find yet often fall short of. My expectations initially were based around incorrect assumptions. I came here because I was hoping to find attractive girls who really want to have sex. I thought it would be easier to find that slutty girl who enjoyed a variety of different types of men, a real coinsure as you will. A woman who has had enough sex with the hottest of us men to actually want new experiences with a more average type of guy. This I have found to be untrue, they like a lot of the men are looking for hotties. They are looking for better then they could hook up with at the night clubs where competition comes into play and they get beat out by the hotter girl at club xyz for the object of their desire. Now before you get your panties in a wad this does not apply universally to ever girl here, you I am sure are different. It is my own fault anyway to expect more then I should but what I find fascinating is how much this site is really about fantasy, we apply our projected sexual desire into the process of finding that fulfillment. If someone is looking for a real hot slut who loves to screw morning noon and night, he sends pics of his dick and writes the words of his desires into his note of false expectation. She on the other hand wants to be taken by a handsome, strong man with a Hugh member, muscular, tan and the object of her profiled fantasy. Now again don’t get in a huff, this is not true of everyone, and you I am sure are different, I wish I was. I have to laugh at some of these girls just like, I am sure, some laugh at me. I believe I do much better at a club where free market is at work then here. I will tell you why. I have turned down girls at clubs that here may turn me down, because at the club there is direct competition, time sensitive competition LOL. The free market tends to select matches based on our perception of beauty. Our perceptions are usually a manifestation of the typical Hollywood view of beauty coupled with our changing sexual fantasies. Now throw the bar onto a web site and allow girls to show pictures featuring shots of their pussy and watch average girl X get sex from above average guy Z and average guy Y ends up with below average girl W. This is simply because above average guy Z views the pic of average girl X’s nice trim and realizes it is easy and the pic makes him horny. Plus guys seem to have far less control then girl due I suppose dur to the basic nature of the sexes. I have not really received any replies from good looking girls that I could readily meet at a bar. All of the responses except from couples have been girls I would usually pass up in a night club setting. We all aim high I suppose and fantasize about scoring with that hottie we may not get the time of day from at the bar. Hoping here at AdultFriendFinder she is a sex starved nymphomaniac, hoping she will fuck anyone who is decent, hoping she finds screwing an average guy nasty and arousing. I wrote my description and even chose my screen name in the haze of desire, consumed with the false idea created by the naked pictures of hot woman showing themselves. Why would a woman spread her legs and call herself juicydickreceptacle if she were not willing to have sex with practically anyone? The answer is she is lost in fantasy as well, she wants to be that slut but that does not mean her expectations match your face.

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