SEX- is there a Spritual Connection?  

letmelickandick 61M
26 posts
9/5/2005 7:55 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

SEX- is there a Spritual Connection?


Being a Buddhist type, I'm inclined to think there's a spritual connection to everything.

I believe that all the significant people in my life are spirits that I've related to on some level in past lives.

Sex has always seemed pretty "special". If that's not "relating" to someone, what is? Or can it be reduced to such a level of "utility" (ie the one-nighter, or the drunken lapse), that there is no significance whatsoever?

While you're hooked up with someone you actually "love" have you ever tried stroking a little bit normally. Then stopped and told each other how much you loved each other and suggested that both of you concentrate on that love at the same time to see if there's a difference? I've noticed something, I have to think back aways, but it added a new level of fullfillment.

I sure would like to feel that again. Guess that would require a committed relationship ?
Guess it might be awhile till I find that, what with my cheating, lying and being the proverbial
(but Buddhist) scumbag. Ah, life; if nothing else, it IS interesting.....

ellenluv 58F

9/5/2005 8:58 am

You and I are in the same boat. I have read a few of your blogs and I like them. They are honest. I have been seeing someone for over a year, not very frequently but enough to have developed a special place in my heart for that person, and it would be so nice to be able to tell that person how much I love him while having sex with him. But I dare not for fear of whatever. I mean, what would he think? I'm with him for less than hour..we fuck each other's brains out and say goodbye that's the extent of our "relationship". And although I would like more, it will never happen for the simple reason I'm married.


CountryLover56 60F

9/23/2005 9:15 am

I had an 8 yr affair. I was married, he was married and we saw each other twice a year for long weekends. We also stayed in touch on pretty much a daily basis.

Lovemaking with someone whom you have such a spiritual connection to, to stop and gaze into each other's eyes, touch his face and say I love you in the midst of the great pleasure - oh honey, there's nothing like it.

He was the love of my life. Somehow I doubt I'll ever have that depth of a relationship again. Oh, I'll love again, my heart is too big and loving and giving not to love again - but the entire spiritual connection too .....no.


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