Cheating with all the Reasons  

letmelickandick 61M
26 posts
9/4/2005 7:31 am

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Cheating with all the Reasons

Woo dog, a bit of a hornet's nest, this married guy fooling around stuff !

I kind of made a little mistake. I tried to justify my behavior. That cheaten man thang.

That sure gets some women riled up. Probably one's that have been cheated on are the worst, of course. They have the real wounds to remember.

It's kind of a distant memory when you're the sort who lurks around on this site, but "fidelity" is a BIG deal. Maybe that's why us scumbag cheating husbands choose cheating?

It's got the maximum potential, total devastation value, and the greatest possible thrill. Getting over, bigtime, after these years of being "shined on" about you getting a job, watching you read novels, sit endlessly in front of the TV, ignore housework and laundry, yell at the kids.

But then maybe I'm one of these guys who sits around all day watching football, in my (stained) white T-shirt, and of course drinking beer? Bet I'll have to answer to some assumptions that will be made along this thread....

It IS devastating though. My ex Wife wanted to cheat, just hadn't yet. She said she loved both of us.

I was kind of an a-hole back then anyway; but if she'd just used it as a wake up call, I'd have done ANYTHING to keep her. God I loved her so ! Ended up buying her an airline ticket.... So I know the deep feelings of despair, long period of celibacy, fear to love again.

So I guess you're going to have to call me something else, cause I'm definitely not insensitive. It amazes me though because I remember thinking after that, that there was NO WAY I would EVER cheat in a committed relationship.

This only works as long as I don't get caught. If I do, I will have done to another human being what was once done to me. That must not happen.

Started out funny, kind of got serious, didn't it?

Ecaffiene 52F

9/4/2005 8:52 am

hmm,like a coward and a liar..or what else would people call you??

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/4/2005 9:25 am

Human beings do not seem to have been fused with the ability to mate for life like some animals do. I don't judge you, I don't want to be judged either. People cheat for a lot of reasons, one is feeling lonely and needing to be wanted. It is your decsion to make and also your consequences. Good luck.

rm_scottshottie 62F
4 posts
9/6/2005 3:08 am

My mantra has always been-
girls if he's wandering, you should be wondering
satisfied men USUANLLY do not cheat

rm_scottshottie 62F
4 posts
9/8/2005 11:48 am


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