On condoms and losing the damn things...  

lestari_jane 33F
14 posts
11/11/2005 11:58 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

On condoms and losing the damn things...

As fun as it can be, people lose condoms inside me way too often. The fun bit is finding them... usually it's not to difficult to reach in and discover said lost condom nestled between the anterior wall and the cervix. But... using condoms is a conscious choice. They have uses. Accidentally ending up having unprotected sex is generally not the plan when the condom goes on the penis.

I'm getting to the point where I think responsible penis ownership may just involve finding a type of condom that fits that specific penis. One that doesn't come off. One that isn't too loose, isn't too tight. Regardless of what is said, I'm starting to think that one size doesn't fit all. That different condoms feel different, fit differently. I'm hoping that different condoms have less risk of coming off.

Ok I can't lay all the blame here on the owner of the penis. Maybe there's something about me. Maybe I should change the way I have sex, stop using my pelvic floor, or something. But somewhere out there, there must be a way to make condoms stay on.

I wonder what it feels like. Does it feel different before the condom is lost to after? I mean I get the impression that the penis coming out without the condom is equally surprising to both of us... but...

It's an adventure... but I guess when you make the choice to use condoms you choose to have safe sex. For that to just go out the window is sometimes a bit confronting. It necessitates more discomfort than is absolutely necessary. And where do you go from there? I'm thinking that it's probably still better to try and have protected sex with that person... but is it a justification to throw caution to the wind?


Interesting tho, or at least to me

DukeAbbaddon 42M
280 posts
11/13/2005 12:47 pm

well i think stay with a partner it lets you grow !

and the sooner the easy days are over the harder i have to try

rm_Snoopy29m 40M
172 posts
11/15/2005 2:55 am

" people lose condoms inside me way too often "

Thats messed up

DukeAbbaddon 42M
280 posts
11/19/2005 2:22 pm

write more ! arrrggg

curiousone8309 33M

11/28/2005 7:58 pm

yes well condoms can be lost inside people it does happen as you you oobviousoly know all to well. but thestatement one size fits all isn't true i find that ansell regular are a better fit than say durex regualr. plus the guy/guys just have to find the right one that works for them and stick with it. you should try as many as possible till you find the ones that work the best.

rm_TitanFord 31M
3 posts
1/6/2006 7:26 am

I'd like to help with both your issues 1 I have never lost a condom before id like to experiment with yourself to see if it could happen to me 2 waking up to an orgasm or close to is the most satisfying way to wake up. Oral is the only way however penis insertion can hurt if you use my morning wood whilst im alseep, just a wierd thing i can fuck with any hard anytime except the morning wood , hti me back with some contact details if interested glen_churchill where mail is hot

rm_euridiocy 61M
638 posts
2/3/2006 12:57 am

Hi Jane, By the age of this thread by now you may have a solution. But.... if not....Have you tried cock rings? Available at Adult Stores for a fivetune (that's one more than a fortune!) or hardware stores as rubber 'O'-rings. You could get a size and strength selection for under $5. If you're worried about seeming vague in front of the hard-ware guy tell them its for a project of hubbys and you've forgoten the size so you'll take a few. Apply with you standard lube and roll over the installed condomto the very base. They need to be firm/tight but not uncomfortably so. This may also inhibit blood return from the penis as partial softening is the major cause of loose/lost condoms. Remember to install a fresh condom after each ejaculation as the contained cum acts as an internal lubricant loosening it - the other major cause. Failing that.....ease up on the Kegels! Anyways, its just a thought ... let us know if you found what works!

mavotin344344 55M

2/3/2006 4:22 pm

Hey Jane,

Just a quick one on your question about whether the man knows he has lost the condom.

The first time it happened to me, I was not sure - I thought maybe I had become used to the thing, and the extra sensitivity was because it had moulded closer to my cock shape or something.

The next time it happened, I recognised that the feeling change was caused by the condom not beng over the end of my cock, so I stopped.

The answer is obviously as one of your other respondant stated, the man has to find a brand and style that fits his cock and stick to it.


rm_lonelyboy514 53M
12 posts
4/7/2007 5:41 pm

hi in reply to your problem as i am not well endowed i need to use tighterfitting condoms or else they r to loose and i have problemskeeping them on.so guys make sure you get proper fitment

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