Know What the Fuck You Want or Dont Fucking Bother  

leopardeprincess 48F
9 posts
3/6/2006 12:07 pm

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5/16/2006 9:10 pm

Know What the Fuck You Want or Dont Fucking Bother


Ok,like I fully understand that this is a sex site and people are not here to share recipes but to hook up and share some pretty wild sexual experiences, but tell me . . . . . .why the fuck do men ask for shit they can't handle?

I am not here to build you up or tear you down, just collect on all the shit you claim to be able to do. Forgot what you promised . . . . shit I think men should read their dam profile before they make contact so they know what in the hell they are here for.

You say you want no strings attached, that's fine not looking for a husband, you say you want to see me with another woman, I say that's fine just as soon as you are with me and another man and you allow that man to do everything to you that you want to do with me. Now all of a sudden you are mad as hell and running like a bitch. Help me fellows, why is it ok for you to ask us to be with the same sex but you feel we have no right to ask the same of you?

I do admit that the lad admitted not having read my profile, he missed the part about my being greedy sexually, and my willingness to try anything once, but hell if you start to talk about all that you have done and are willing to do to please me WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU RUNNING FOR!

Don't get me wrong, his sex was good and with a few more sessions he might would have gotten his wish, without my having to show up with another male, but he freaked, disconnected the conversation and decided not to communicate anymore.

Now I was curious, WHY THE HELL IS HE PISSED?, when he said he wanted to see me with another woman and I didn't freak, just simply made him a counter offer.

So help me my fellow site mates, was I wrong to make the counter offer?, was his manhood being put to the test?, was he more talk than action, are men really this big of losers as he has made me believe.

I wont call him out, nothing to be gained by that, believe him to be a cool dude, venting to get another point of view. Things that make you say UM MM.

TheRealThing96 58F

3/6/2006 12:38 pm

Princess, you are right on with what you have to say. The men here, from what I have already experienced, say 1 thing in their profile and then do another. From what you experienced to what I have. Started talking to a guy here... he wanted to be involved, so his profile said. And he read mine and knew what I wanted. I didn't want a one night stand. We chatted some, talked on the phone.... and saw each other about 6 times. We got involved. We did what our profiles stated we wanted. Then he ran. Ran and ran and ran. Never heard from him again. And it hurt. I don't let my walls and defenses down easliy. But he talked a good talk, evidently. I can't penalize all men for how 1 acted, but you get tired of saying what you want clearly, and getting the opposite. Would have been different if he had misinterpreted what I said I wanted, but he wanted the same thing, and still he ran. So I know what you are talking about, just happened to me in a different way.


CreativeWriter 48M

3/6/2006 12:52 pm

Well I agree wholeheartly with your comments, in fact believe they apply to far to many here. Everyone says they are "willing to try anything once" and then can't handle it when it is offered.

I have to admit, before I get ridiculed myself, that the same offer was made to me. I blinked, but held firm to my conviction that you must do it once, and went for it. Bottom line was that my dear partner at the time had a GREAT time, love every minute of it. The two men, not so much. Had a great time, but laughed all the way through it and ended up just playing with our female friend not each other. But the point of the story was, that we TRIED! We didn't wimp out and cut the conversation off, and run away and hide.

Damn, this whole thing is supposed to be about having fun, having sex, and fulfilling fantasies. If your not willing to indulge in someone elses fantasy, you'll likely never get your own fulfilled either.

Just remember, EVERYONE was safe and played safe. That is a RULE nobody should forget.


rm_sammy6742 34M
7 posts
3/8/2006 6:22 pm

Hey,

Wussup,

Would love to show you a good time ?

Sammy


rm_luckydogg75 41M

3/22/2006 1:31 am

That had to be a shocker for the guy. I think it was a valid counter though. For one it was just a request just like his asking you. maybe some 1-on-1 could have been the best. Bottom line though: You were not wrong for countering. I thought it was awfully clever. Also the whole thing could have been different if Money didn't run. He should realize that not all women are comfortable with our FREAKY requests and fantasies.


mtnviewfriend7 50M

3/22/2006 10:43 am

Certainly you have the right to ask for whatever you want. Particularly on a site like this. That doesn't mean someone is going to give it to you, but you would hope they wouldn't be pissed about it either.

Hope you do better with the next one


notsopixiechick2 44M
12 posts
5/15/2006 11:58 am

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