love or lust ?  

lavish82 34F
50 posts
6/20/2005 3:59 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

love or lust ?

Ah, one of the great fine distinctions of all times. Here goes.

"In love" is that giddy, crazy, hormone-fueled state that makes otherwise sane people do insane things -- like emptying their bank accounts to give to a brand-new beau present, being talked into having a quickie in the office bathroom with a faulty lock during a company party, and tossing off the words "I'm in love" when what you mean is, "I'm crazy in lust."

Loving someone is that rational though joyous state you arrive at when you've been with someone for a while, had countless discussions together about spiritual philosophies and life goals, know not just their erogenous zones but favorite ice cream flavor, have had nights where you'd rather just cuddle, and no longer consider them perfect (far from it!), but know that that's okay.

AmberSolaire 42M

6/20/2005 4:49 am

Are you then one of these people who say you can love someone, but not be " in love" with them? because that makes no sense too me!

kondenado86 30M
9 posts
6/20/2005 5:50 am

It's just the perfect definition! But then again, what about the people who say they fell in love at first sight? Do you think that can be true or it's just crazy-lusty-desire?

hotpleasure3624 60F
19 posts
6/20/2005 6:30 am

How nice to see someone knows what love is. Growth, nurture and time. With that the sex goes from good to great.

HughJarse2000 47M

6/20/2005 7:43 am

"sex goes from good to great"

wish that was always true! I have had my share of great sex, but then had such ordinary sex with the girl I have most loved in my life. But what was so strange is that it was the most amazing "love making" you could imagine - just blew my mind and hers nearly every time. Which just illustrated for me , like the love/lust question , the question of great sex vs love making.

we are strange creatures !!

welcome to blogland.

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
6/20/2005 11:36 am

Well thought out and well stated blog. I love you.

[blog talldarkavg1]

taodoug65 51M
262 posts
6/20/2005 1:11 pm

I haven't discussed the difference between love and lust in any blogs in a while. But by your writting it seems as though you have gone from lust to love. And are on your way to getting married some day soon.

I will give you a piece of advice I have posted on my blog in the past. You will think in your mind duhhh when you read what I say. But in two years from the day you get married you will have to have some one remind you. Never ever allow each other to leave the home or go to sleep with out hearing the words from each others mouth "I Love You." Especially most important of all you must follow this rule when you are angry. SOUNDS STUPID HUH. JUST DO IT.


lavish82 34F
1 post
6/20/2005 11:02 pm

@ taodoug.......I'm nno where on my way for a marriage thing but indeed ur's was the great piece of advise , ll keep in mind . thk u

rm_HsAiRY044 41M

7/26/2005 6:50 pm

Love and sex are interrelated after you fall in love at one stage or other you are bound to have sex since you get involved with complete self confidence

iam9819150083 40M

9/27/2005 2:45 am

love ur blogs .........lust all for u nice one
love bunty

rm_ways2gain 46M
9 posts
11/10/2005 12:33 am

Im the Doc and the Healer. Message me and Ill massage you.

hot_bed_partner 38M
5 posts
11/18/2005 3:45 pm

Great blog lavish & excellent comments tao!

chirag440 35M
5 posts
2/24/2006 8:08 pm

hi dear
what do u think ,is there is thing like love .then believe me there is nothing like love,we are all living in fake envionment.i have never seen much persons,marrying .u have also seen lakhs of unmarried couples on roads,millions of couples on internet ,married but unsatisfied,so what we conclude that sex is a pleasureable things
like we are sitting in ac car,so we enjoy it,like other plessurable thing,everyone want pleasure etc have more negative effecte than positive one..................i can tell u more later mail me

honey0415 36M
5 posts
3/14/2006 10:54 am

if u feel like lonely press 98..if u feel scared press 99....if u need a shoulder press 11...if u wanna b seen press 22...and if u wanna be fucked press 45....and now all upon u

rm_tiger_4you 58M
3 posts
3/20/2006 5:55 am

hy u write lust and love i think lust love are not same think but depand wt kind love u taking abt if ur takig love if ut taking only about phisycal love which demands and give to-gathere but lust is more negtive and love is more pore in hind pavitra love inspir u for giveingness but lust only want mean lust only demand u dont need contact me u can feel it around u

SirMounts 102M

5/8/2006 2:36 am

My, that is so very well written, and has so much wisdom, too.
As must the writer, lavish. *smiling*

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