Is love possible without sex, and is sex possible without love?  

lavish82 34F
50 posts
6/20/2005 11:13 pm

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Is love possible without sex, and is sex possible without love?

Love without sex is missing something, wasted on the incapable. Sex without love is hollow and happens on an alarming average basis.
At least, so i think...i wanna know the rest of the worlds positions...and i dont mean top or bottom.

goodlovin220 42F

6/21/2005 12:34 am

It depends, would that mean sexual attraction equates to love? If so, then by all means, sex without love would be hollow and unsatisfying. Maybe sexual chemistry is 'love' in its infant stages that may or may not be actualized.

I believe love without sex (or sexuality, sensuality of some sort) means there's a communication block, which will eventually take on a different form in other aspects of a relationship. End result- DRAMA.

aberdeenfrog 38M

6/21/2005 1:56 am

I totally agree with you, sex should be an important part of a couple, and life too I guess.
I mean what kind of couple doesn't enjoy having sex together?
If they don't then something is wrong (well as far as i know anyway)

just my 2 cents.

rm_affbreak 46M
287 posts
6/21/2005 2:50 am

You can divide the objects you do love into different categories, two of which are yourself and your partner. Love and sex are bound in a way, but don't need each other to exist or being enjoyed, e.g. you love your parents under normal circumstances, but don't want to have sex with them. On the other hand I bet you'd fuck some porn starts out there, with only a slight possibility of falling in love.

TattooedWolf 47M

6/21/2005 4:39 am

This is where people ending screwing themselves. I love my father, but I don't feel the need to have sex with him and I disgree that sex without love is hollow. Why do I need to love somebody I have sex with to make it a fulfilling experience? There are two aspects of sex. The physical and the emotional. Once you learn to separate the two, your life becomes much easier. I've had sex with people I didn't love many times and never walked away feeling hollow. Why? Because it was a physical experience. I knew that going in, set my mind frame to that and enjoyed it for what it was. Shaking off centuries of sexual repression is not the easiest thing to do, but it can be done.

goodlovin220 42F

6/21/2005 9:54 am

Yet emotion of some sort drives sexuality, does it not?

myownthang1 38M

6/22/2005 7:45 am

I just love sex, does that count?

AmberSolaire 42M

6/22/2005 11:38 pm

In looking only for black and white you missed the grey.Theres a lot og grey.

rm_481966 50M
6 posts
7/4/2005 5:35 am

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rm_xtasy2056 41M
1 post
7/11/2005 1:14 am

Sex and love are very distinct and separate things.You could have very good sex with a partner but not love him and on the other hand u may love someone, but u dont have good sex with him/her.Sex is more of body chemistry and situation, whereas love is more mind centered n emotional.In Delhi where I live ive had a realtionship based only on sex with no love as such--this being clear to both partners.

lvronymphomaniac 33M
2 posts
7/14/2005 2:59 am

sex without love is definitely possib;e atleast with me
i feel like havin sex with any girl i see (most of the times) but i wouldnt wanna love her

what say u? wanna have sex

magillco 35M
3 posts
7/15/2005 1:52 am

I agree it is not important to fall in love to have sex. Sex can be had by any two people who mutualy decide they only wanna have sex however love is sort of a commitment which a lot of people are afraid of giving...So I say have sex and enjoy who cares about love anyways

rm_cupfillar 56M
4 posts
7/18/2005 10:14 am

"love at first sight"..where is the sex?If u are fallen in love and some how seperated keep on loving without any sex or even thinking of sex.
on the contrary sex is a sport played on different grounds and you can not fall in love with all of them. "sex with a stranger".jhoney you can not involve emotionally (love)with everybody you have sex with.

creator75 41M
1 post
7/18/2005 10:08 pm

u r absolutely rt.........................

playtronics 39M
1 post
7/24/2005 4:33 am

A sick thought: (Love), ishq, vishq, pyar, vyar sab sex karne ka zariya hein.
Healthy thought: Sex is an urge, instinct or a behavior to represent Love, ishq, vishq, pyar, vyar. Kya kehte ho bhailog?
Kissing is considered to be a sexual behaviour (mother kisses her child with love...could not be classified as sexual but kissing someone only for the sake of sex is not love at all).
It is only the classification of a thought process, in different scenerios, which makes it different like maggie tomato chillie sauce.
So love is possible without Sex and Sex is possible without love.
but Love and Sex do complement each other...this fact can't be denied.
Sex ki feeling is like a salt in a sabzi, it has to be present while making Love.

rm_bobby8488 55M

7/28/2005 7:16 am

for me sex is the most important aspect in live n one should never be left behind n im just crazy about it i had a few frens when ever we meet it happens at least 4times its just mind blowing it just wet wet n wild

cool1190 44M/43F
1 post
9/3/2005 3:10 am

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ricky99192 39M
2 posts
9/7/2005 4:49 am

hi there.... sex is integral part of love, infact the most beautiful gift of god. It is never enough and one learns each time he makes love... i love to exlore new heights n new things each i make love.. and oral sex is the best..

falong29 44
1 post
9/28/2005 10:49 am

Is love possible without sex, and is sex possible without love?....
c Lavish the quation u asked in it self is an answer for the same. i dont know about every body every body has diffrent theories on every thing but for one thing i am prity sure is that yes love is possible withouth sex ...idont need to tell you all kinds of love between friends same sex opposite sex family etc....and on the other hand sex is very much possible without love if not for this there wont be any prostitutes(read substitutes) or brothels or many such things....well but yes i strongly disagree on this part though still I strongly recomend sex for love I enjoy sex my partner doesent I enjoy sex with XYZ.... he/she enjoy the same but no commitments beyond hopfuly i have given you my answer if read it and like it reply on if you wish....i will give you both love withouth sex ..N ..SEX withouth love ...and you wont be disapointed for sure .....byeeee./..

robin_alone 42M
1 post
10/20/2005 12:21 pm

Sex is natural so enjoy it, its a need for both men and women so why go into details

kanakraaj 36M
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10/29/2005 2:25 am

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rm_ways2gain 46M
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11/10/2005 12:33 am

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rm_fingalnostic 36M
4 posts
11/13/2005 11:06 am

Love as far as i know does not need sex for its sucess/fulfilment.
Many a gr8 luv stories had no sex involved in them be it romeo juliet.......
But the point to note is that they never became reality.
Also a lot of uv marriges end up as separation or as a total chaos.
Sex on the other hand is the glue that binds everything together.
Most people take sex as a form of entertainment but i think with it comes a lot of responsibility.
togetherness requires faith and sex instills belief in couples if one for a few moments.
So one shud opt for sex only when he/she is mentally prepared and not
What do u think?

hot_bed_partner 38M
5 posts
11/18/2005 3:36 pm

There is a certain need of trust and fantasy for lovers to get into a sexual relationship which most of the times comes into existence very soon.....For sex, of course it is possible to have sex without a relationship. All that you need is the lust to take over and that takes care of it all!

koyotezzzz 47M
9 posts
12/8/2005 2:42 am

my thoughts.. guess will help you know me better than posting nude pics' n asking you out...LOL new here so yet to get on paid n be able to get in touch directly.. lemme know..

Well, its interesting to see all u guys thoughts'.. whatever may be the social environment..i guess if people cant find people, guess its our own personal restrain or inhibitions..I have always found someone interesting thru various personals, not just india..but philippines, singapore..and even Uk and US..but surely after building the comfort thru phone calls etc..where both get to know each other a bit beforehand,..everything in life takes effots and investment friends...even if its time

guess the most imp issue i hv faced in india is that i got talking to some nice women and girls here..but some are doing it just for money..which cranks up the whole becomes too clinical and all...and ur left wondering.

or sometimes they push u back..mentally..not being enough exploratory n adventurous to meet up someone who is genuine..guess odd experiences make them so..but guys..ooops gals'..if u dun will u get someone to build on n have regular fun times..

best i hv found is to meet up in nice public places..clubs or restaurants or once we even went for a movie together...lets u drop ur guard n have build on for great stuff later..

naughty_dick6 43M

12/19/2005 5:03 am

Sex without love is like love without sex! Make love and have sex... makes sense?

If it does.. ok, if not call me!

lol_ii_pop 40M
1 post
12/29/2005 1:04 pm

I just wonder, y, only in our country, people like all the abov wil go crazy to write a comment for u, knowing or infact, risking that u might turn out 2 b a man having fun with other men posing as a gal. Sex without luv, or Luv without sex,... both can give equal pleasures depending on the situation demanded. But, on the contrary,...just quoting a debate on this site, and having absolutely no SEX, with or without love is totally "ABSURD, HAZARDOUS, WASTING, n ILLOGICAL. so, i, including al the others will b happy to recieve a post from u as well as to what do you think about getting into true relationship with some one over the net. Waiting for a repply eagerly.

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1/7/2006 9:52 pm

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iluv2fk3 48F

1/8/2006 9:46 am

Both are possible... love without sex AND sex without love... Depends on what you want, doesnt it?
For a lot of people sex without love leaves them with a hollow feeling in the pit of their stomachs, ( though they'd conitnue doing it!!! lol)
Sex, when there is an emotional connection leaves you with a glow on your face which comes from deep within!!
The bottom line is what do you want... each to their own,eh?

rm_radolove 37M
1 post
2/26/2006 2:00 pm

love without sex i cant think of it and love is a like a coin

fuck_u_shimla3 39M

4/4/2006 11:59 pm

hi i am raj in india want sex plz

old_monk 35M
4 posts
5/21/2006 11:54 am

well, here's my philoshopy...

u can have sex without love, but u can't love without having sex...ain't it???

old_monk 35M
4 posts
5/21/2006 11:56 am

and as far as my personal experience goes, it's pretty difficult to kiss someone on the lips if you don't love him/her (in my case her ) while it's not at all difficult to have many of you support this???

rm_akankur 40M
11 posts
6/5/2006 2:18 am

u sound like a passionate lady.....mail me

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