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Those Naughty Gemini Traits
Those Naughty Gemini Traits
I found this article online and find it to be very telling in many ways...we Gemini get such a bad ....(giggles)
by Nola Summers
Gemini, dear sweet Gemini -- half the time anyway. It's not so much a joining of obvious good and bad as it is an exasperating, but lovable package of everything that could be called a character trait. To anyone basking in the ray of sunshine and sociability that is Gemini -- you'll do fine as long as you don't spend too much time trying to figure out what makes them tick. They just are what they are -- whatever that is -- trouble is -- they are completely and infectiously endearing. Gemini natives are master debaters. (Not masturbators -- master debaters, but given their ability to handle things...) If you're determined not to sleep with one and say so, chances are you'll find yourself underneath and on number three in the list of reasons why you should be exactly there, and or, experiencing orgasm number two -- whichever comes first -- before you realize you're somehow arguing the other side. Did I mention persuasive and charming? Amazing really, what fits where, when you take the time to talk it in. If you've mastered the art of watching a Gemini in action and realize that it is not a reflection on how they feel about you, you already know that there is nothing more entertaining than observing your Gemini mate work a room, grocery store, mall, gas station, wherever really. Outrageous behavior by all accounts but second nature to the Twins; they may even deny it, but no one can work it like a true Gemini.
Sometimes in their effort to remain in control of everything, they force their emotions through their intellectual sieve of a mind and come across as cold or aloof, but they're not really -- it's just the Control twin inside fighting with the Wild and Crazy twin -- always interesting to see who's going to win .
The Gemini woman is an elusive creature made all the more maddening by her total ability to enchant. Do you want this woman? Be prepared to coddle and cater to her every whim; that's the easy part -- you've got to figure out the right time to do it. Just because you've bathed and oiled and powdered her little a$$ every Sunday night for the last month, then made mad passionate love to her doesn't mean that this Sunday you should do the same. Mix it up baby ‒ f#@! her filthy this time then just run the shower. She needs satisfying on all levels -- mentally, emotionally, and sexually; I'm not suggesting a spot quiz as a halfway rest during mutual oral stimulation but you'd better get with the program.
Gemini men are entertainment that never ends, even when they are exhibiting their aloof and distant selves. Remember it's not about you, it's about them, it's what they do, and you need to get over that part of their makeup. If you can't get over it then just leave because any overly emotional "Why don't you talk to me?" scenes are just going to make him open the door for you -- don't expect a verbal good bye. Sex itself fits into the Gemini desire for variety because the potential for something a bit different each time is there even if one certain stroke or movement is a guarantee come trigger, the getting there will be filled with many twists and turns.
A Gemini will be intrigued if you can match them intellectually, but don't trade too many verbal barbs with one as they're much more sensitive than they pretend to be. Do not lie to them. You don't have to tell them everything; in fact don't be surprised if they insist that you don't tell them something, but be prepared to be truthful if they ask a question. Never be openly suspicious -- they expect to be trusted, and in return will trust you.
Gemini hot spots are the arms and hands. You could try pulling their arms behind their backs and tying their hands together, but being a selfish lover, I prefer to be held in their arms; opened up with one or two or three long strong fingers till I'm wet and begging for more: a room isn't the only thing a Gemini can work.
These two can keep up with each other. They both like variety and adventure in and out of the bedroom. But is that enough? Aries is way too domineering and possessive for Gemini in the long run. So the answer is no, it's not enough. Aries likes different ways and different partners -- for themselves -- and each one of those must only want them. So, once again, the answer is no.
The lube belongs in this drawer; the paddle hangs handle down. Taurus needs order to feel secure; things go where they go and that's the way it's going to be. Gemini can't do this on a regular basis.
This should work right? Well it will until they wear each other out with the speed at which they think life should be lived. Sometimes you have to miss an experience or two just because there's no time. If I am unaffected by the fact that you have your face under someone else's skirt, and you don't care that I'm bent over the couch taking it hard and long from someone else (this is okay because there's truth and honesty in our relationship), then exactly why is it that we are together again?
Oh dear, just get the bandages out ahead of time. After that initial physical pull wears off here, we are unfortunately done. Cancer sees full-on flirtation in everything that Gemini does or says to anyone. Gemini cannot change; neither do they want to. Not the cuddliest of signs, Gemini also cannot fulfill the Crab's constant need for emotional demonstrations.
This should be fun. Leo may need a little more adoration than Gemini would naturally fork out, but this is a small problem in the big picture. We've already established that Gemini is intelligent and in this relationship they will learn to apply the art of timely attention. Yes, they're going out tonight. They're dressed and ready to go, but not before they stroke their little Lion's fur the right way. Hands are for spreading and tongues are for licking and plying and probing; by the time Gemini is done, Leo will feel that it is their own big-heartedness that binds these two. Gemini will wipe off their knees, grab the keys and go.
Has this Virgo been sent to Gemini as some sort of Karmic test? Gemini certainly thinks so. That hate you but I've got to have you feeling will wear off pretty quick. Virgo will nag (at least Gemini will see it that way; Virgo is just showing their love). The Good Twin will resort to bad behavior and the Bad Twin will be absolutely horrible.
These two are actually fairly well suited. They're both intellectuals, and neither is combative or demanding. Libra will go along with Gemini's desire to experiment. They will be more jealous of each other than concerned with what each one does with another. Confused? Let's say we're at a dungeon party, lots of things going on, little shows here and there. The fact that our Gemini is prominently displayed; elegantly tied and splayed; velvet gag and blindfold only enhancing their lovely face; onlookers entranced as they watch each red welt appear.... Libra is not concerned that people are looking at something they think is theirs -- they would prefer that the attention was on themselves.
Establishing the bond may take years, but maturity brings a strong understanding that youth may not have been able to sustain. Gemini is more spontaneous but can pull self-reliant, sometimes cynical Scorpio along. Scorpio never feels challenged by the Gemini need for self-control; patience wins. Scorpio will keep tonguing that spot that makes the Control Twin fight to keep it together. Gemini should let it happen -- it's the only way to learn that this type of loss of control can feel very, very good -- every single time. When Scorpio licks their lips Gemini should just turn over and spread.
Yes, opposites do attract, but for how long? Who cares really as long as it's f#@!ing great while it lasts -- or is that as long as the f#@!ing is great? Irrelevant. In the long run there may not be enough affection outside the sack to keep it going. Sag gives Gemini the freedom they need, but they also both need some snuggly stuff even if they pretend they don't. See the problem? If we both pretend we don't want to be held, but we do, a little bit anyway, but we don't do it...hmm...
Capricorn likes a structured lifestyle. Gemini questions, and often argues, the need for regimen and order. The rope shall go here; one loop above and one below your brea$t$; around your wrists pulled behind you; the arch in your back forcing your chest out, your nipple$ now hard and aching to be touched. The two ends twisted together will be knotted at just the right length and snaked between the cheeks of your a$$; the knot will lay against and press into you when pulled. Beyond the knot the strands are separate and hold you open as they are pulled up and tied. As I enter you, you arch your body, which pulls the rope which forces the knot into your a$$. Structure is a beautiful thing, but Gemini might still be looking for some socks to tie you to the bedposts 'cause we did that rope thing last time.
Talk, talk, talk. I suppose that old standby 69 could stem the flow of verbosity that these two are capable of -- how can you talk when your mouth is full? But if one becomes distracted and starts talking the other cannot help but answer. Aquarius, despite their free-love attitude can still be hurt by Gemini's flirtations. Sometimes Gemini just needs to stop it. Especially when they find someone who will give them the space and trust they desire. I don't think they can really stop it for any length of time. "I can't help it," falls short eventually.
Pisces is very emotional and very easily hurt by Gemini's sometimes callous honesty. Even when Gemini is really just playing around Pisces will take it to heart. Pisces needs constant demonstrations of love and attempts to blackmail Gemini emotionally will not work. "No sex tonight dear." The Good Twin may look back wistfully through the rear view mirror, but the Bad Twin will still be driving away.
7/1/2005 12:20 am
ahhahahaha. I hope Gemini-Sagitarius, Gemini-Aquarius, etc thing is not what it says it is. Otherwise you won't be able to get with anyone. That would suck for me too |
7/2/2005 11:05 am
7/19/2005 12:57 pm
Hey what's going on. Hope all is well with you. Listen I might be in New York city next week and was wondering if you wanted to meet up and hang out for a bit. Let me know when you get a chance. I left my contact info on my testimonial for you,hit me up when you get a chance. Take care.|
7/20/2005 1:00 am
I like that Gemini - Taurus thing. As I've said before we have alot in common. I also am a singer, songwriter, and wonderful cook. Entertaining is my speciality. Hope there is a chance to show u my special qualities.|