Just because I'm here doesn't mean I'm a desparate woman!!  

rm_ladysatramp 62F
28 posts
12/30/2005 7:55 pm

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Just because I'm here doesn't mean I'm a desparate woman!!


As the title indicates, I'm not here out of desparation. Yes, I would like to meet a nice man who is confident in himself and meets all my self-imposed criteria. Until that happens, would all the younger men stop acting like they are going to do ME a favor. Would all the older men quit acting like they are going to do ME a favor. Oh please....if they only knew.
If any guys are reading this, please, please, please quit assuming that just because you send an email and say "Hey baby, wanna meet sometime?" that I'm going to fall head over heels for that line. That may work for some but quit acting like cavemen. If you even want a chance at a response, remember the odds on here. Lots of men, fewer women. You have to come up with something a little more clever to catch anyones attention and don't rely on an amateur pic of your cock to do that! FYI, I personally do not respond to anyone that sends me what they obviously view as their best feature.
Now, in defense of some of the male gender. I have received some very thoughtful, creative, amusing emails. I've even received poems, songs, and wonderfully touching notes. Keep those coming!! I will respond to those!!
I'm not sure why this subject is really bugging me tonight. It's bothered me off and on for the time I've been on this site but tonight I just feel I need to vent! Thank you for listening!
I'll have more random thoughts in the future!!

SmedlySuperGophr 52M

12/31/2005 8:31 am

It has to be said time and time again here, doesn't it. When I first joined, I was amazed at the number of explicit nudes posted as Pic #1, both male and female. I guess men just enjoy looking at the very thing that brings meaning to their otherwise meaningless lives. I have friends here that don't even bother reading emails accompanied by dick pictures. A tasteful nude or natural photo has a much better chance of attracting someone in my opinion.

You don't post a photo .... makes a person wonder ... who is that woman behind the curtain?

Good luck in your quest ...


BROC817 44M

12/31/2005 11:05 am

i wanted to say hello to you and welcome you to AdultFriendFinder...i run a small local group called [62577] and i also would like to invite you to join us...if you have any interest in joining then feel free to click on the name...after doing so please leave us a brief intro...but please feel free to post / comment on a few things...we are a very respectful group of people and very non judgemental !!! we all just love to have alot of fun with the possibility of metings...good luck on this site and i hope to see you around !!!


BROC817 44M

12/31/2005 11:06 am

sorry thats the group Looking For Friendships !!!


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
12/31/2005 7:44 pm

You just have to ignore the imature males on here. You are not the only one bothered by them. Most all the women are. I hear this all the time. Thanks for writing about this, hope to hear more on how you feel in the future.


Viggo57 60M

1/1/2006 12:32 pm

Vent on, ladysatramp! I like your rantings and look foreward to reading more. Anyone as articulate as you will never be considered desperate! I think what you might be considered is very interesting!!

Happy 2006!


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