Wonder Why?  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
3/30/2005 6:50 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Wonder Why?


Ok, why are there so many men out here that are married but still looking for a piece of ass. There has to be some kind of an epidemic of sorts that all of these men NEED sex so bad. I mean, none of their wives give it to them. Or is it just the thrill of having some on the side?
Come on men, what is it? I have had at least a half dozen married men contact me this week alone. I was married, and he probably didn't get it as much as he wanted. But when he did, it was some very hot sex. I guess its just a part a life, men go elsewhere for sex, to find someone that is more into what they desire. Well, men, no matter who u fuck, you still better make sure that they are very satisfied, before you move on to other activities. THe woman always cums first.

SmallShakoRival 60M
88 posts
3/30/2005 8:50 am

Maybe the sex was hot for you, but from his perspective it wasn't all that. If the quantity and quality isn't there, both sexes go looking. So please don't isolate men on that topic. Then again, most men do think more with the little head rather than the one intended. And your right, women do rule the world!

"Ones' attitude greatly determines the outcome of any difficult task"


Cathy_Dave 54M/54F

3/30/2005 9:08 am

We get a lot of emails from married men looking to join us ...... or should I say wanting to fuck me .... lol. We took the time to ask a few why they were looking for sex outside their marriage and the most outrageous reply we got was and I quote " I want to be with a woman that is a slut and my wife is not a slut" ....... well well ..... isn't it nice to know that this idiot thinks I'm a slut ...... lol ...... Cathy


expatbrit49 62M

3/30/2005 10:52 am

There are probably as many reasons as there are men looking to get laid. I expect that you are right some men just want somone different, some are not getting enough at home and some could be getting none. It all depends on what you are looking for.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


CuriousAlaskan 70M
21 posts
9/13/2005 1:44 pm

I have thouroughly enjoyed reading your posts. I can only speak for my reasons, and do not try to justify my actions. It was a conscious decision after over 5 years of celebacy due to my wife's health and related medication. It totally wiped our her desire and interest in sex. We have been together for 22 years, and I never saw another woman after our first date--until last year.

I am highly sexed and usually horny. After stumbling onto AdultFriendFinder, I decided that I wasn't getting any younger and life is to short to go without sex. Most women do not want to play with a married man. I accept and understand that. That and my age greatly reduce my opportunities, yet I have been fortunate enough to make lots of friends with AdultFriendFinder. Having sexy ladies as friends is a plus even without having sex with them.

A few of these friendships have the rare combination of sexual chemistry and acceptance which provides a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. While I still don't have sex as often as I would like, it is a total indulgence in sensual extasy when I do, whether with a lady friend or a couple I have become friends with. Being indulged ocasionally is nice, but I must admit that pleasing a woman is my greatest pleasure.

I choose not to indulge in guilt, and find that I not only feel better, I am more attentitive to my wife--letting her know I still want her without pressuring her.

By the way, I do make sure anyone showing interest in me as a sexual partner knows I am married.


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