What is your looking for on AFF?  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
6/22/2005 9:04 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What is your looking for on AFF?


I think i have asked this once before, but im really curious. I thought that being with just one person for a few nights a week is what i wanted. But I am not going to lie, I have enjoyed ALL of the men i have met. There is an interesting variety of people on here. But the thing is, I just VERY recently got divorced. I am not looking for just one person to give me what i want right now. There may come a time when I find that person and think, what the hell am i doing on here?...but as for right now. I like the variety.
I don't think that its wrong to want more than one person for a sexual variation. I don't want to be condemned for the fact that I enjoy meeting men for sexual activities. That is what this site if for. I am not saying that this is for everyone, some people do get on here and just want One person to meet their needs. THat is not for me right now.

The anticipation of meeting someone new and finding out about them, it turns me on. It keeps me wanting more. Some of the men i have met can really kiss..thats a plus. I love oral, not all can do it the way i like, but can do other things that I do like. So there is a happy medium here.
So, hopefully after reading this..im not looked at as a slut, but if thats what you see, then this site is not for u. Sex is to be enjoyed, the more the merrier.

LordsBitedStood 64M
61 posts
6/22/2005 9:26 pm

Right you are Ms. Fire. You are not a slut just a educated free woman who knows what she likes. If those that would condem you do they they are as you said on the wrong site. I chose here because the type site it is removes some of the barriers that are up for meeting someone. I am seeking a LTR but may find one or two ladies along the way that enjoy my company just not the commitment. So be it. If and when that day comes for you then have no regrets about enjoying your sex drive and sharing it. Personally I like a woman secure in her sexuality and desires. She is strong enough to survive on her terms. Good luck and have fun.

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hotandhorny107 58F

6/22/2005 10:25 pm

Thanks lady for expressing what I have been feeling. I too am enjoying the variety of what is offered here and have found myself seeing more than one or two men. It is not that I hop into the sack with everyone that I talk to here because I don't. Rather I get to know them a bit first with chat either on line or in person and then meet. If there is an attraction then great, we go to the next level. If not, so be it. I am having fun and great sex too.


PassionGoneWild 54M

6/22/2005 10:35 pm

I appreciate your openness. I guess I'm looking for sex that is based on lust rather than duty.


PillsburyCodeBoy 60M

6/26/2005 6:17 am

I think you have a very healthy attitude. I'm happy for you that things are working out so well for you on this site.


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