Voluptuous women or Thin women?? Whats your desire?  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
7/28/2005 5:00 pm

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Voluptuous women or Thin women?? Whats your desire?

Im just curious about what men really like. I am a voluptuous woman, ok....im a big girl. But i have not had any problem meeting men and keeping them around. Not that being a big girl is something that im aiming for, but its here, and im living life to the fullest. But i was also once a small, petite woman. So ive seen things from both sides and to be honest, the men ive met and kept...seem to genuinely like me for me. But the ones that i have just had sex with and never talked to again, well..obviously they just needed a one nighter.

So tell me men, what do u prefer? And when u decide which type of woman turns u on, WHY do they turn u on? What is it about them that really gets to u. I know men that like both. Its all in what you like.

As a woman, i love the teddy bear type men..but i have to admit, when a hard body male wants to meet, i don't turn that down either. Who would?

Give me some ideas guys...Im so curious about what others think.

This picture is me when i was once a young,vibrant woman. Im still that sexy woman inside....trust me on that.


letschat1961 55M

7/29/2005 1:24 pm

Lady, I prefer my women to have a few curves to their body. I can't help stairing at a lovely well endowed lady. Not sure why just know I love looking at them. And if I'm lucky enough to make love to one it is incredible. The best curve is a nice round rearend, love a little butt to look at. I would not argue if you would like to chat a little more about this and anything else you would be interested in finding out.


Masseur_0 41M

7/29/2005 4:44 pm

Have to agree...I'm a thin guy but have always been intrigued and turned on the most by voluptious women. Loove the cuddling capabilities (is that some inner boy/mother thing? Idunno). I love a ladies midsection and large thighs. The sound os legs in panty hose rubbing while they walk is a turn on (sometimes working in a office setting can be difficult for me).

lately I've been looking at smaller petite women and asking myself "Why don;t I find these girls as attractive? Why aren't they as sexy?" The last 2 girlfriends I've had, or should I say, last girlfriend and last wife, were all bigger than me and I just couldn't get enough....
Now I just need to find a beautiflu lady who believes that she is beautiful. I;m tired of trying to convince ladies that I ream AM into them...


playtime44uandi 53M
6545 posts
7/29/2005 8:33 pm

As long as there is some type of hour glass figure, I like it. Actually I just like active ladies. Because I like to be active. Hiking, biking, camping, traveling, I used to say if you'd fit in a kayak, I'm interested. Not that bigger ladies arent good ladies, but I want more thatn just the sex part. You know something else in common to help build up the sexual tension.

~We'll Leave The Light On~


bcvegas4u2 69M
45 posts
8/10/2005 11:20 am

I've always liked women with 'meat on their bones'. My 2nd wife was very thin. Her elbows were like weapons.
I've also had a couple of girl friends who were very large. One had breasts so large that I learned that there is such a thing as having too much of a good thing.

As far as whether someone likes you or not, what matters is that you like yourself. As long as you like yourself(who you are & how you behave)it doesn't matter what they think. If they like you , terrific. If they don't , it's their loss.


RaytownRick 61M

8/19/2005 4:03 pm

The woman that turns me on is the one who loves who she is. I think its more an attitude, than a physical form. I can't change my shape (dramatically) either--but I'm perfectly content with who I am. I've been married to the same woman for 26 years--and she has changed shape in those years. I'm pleased with all of the shapes, because each adds a different dimension. I can tell however when she isn't happy with a particular body part--because she doesn't like me to touch it: Be it her thighs, her breasts, her arms, whatever. If she has decided it is "ugly" than nothing I can do on earth will change her regard for that part of her body. However, if conversely she's pleased with the change (like when she was breastfeeding, she knew her boobs were bigger than usual) she really wanted me to notice. So, for me it isn't the shape of the woman's body--it is the bend of her mind that matters.


davex224 52M
1 post
12/2/2005 1:13 pm

You dont know me and obvious youll never meet me but, you asked what kind of woman turn us on. On reading part of your blog ive noticed your very intelligent and dont suffer fools gladly which i find fascinated by your brutal honesty. i really hope you find your true love in life. you certainly deserve to big woman all the way for me all that suffocating flesh wow............


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