Some men have it, most don't.......  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
1/15/2006 11:24 am

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Some men have it, most don't.......

I began talking to a man on here about a week ago. We immediately went to phone conversation and had good chemistry there. He could talk about anything, not just sex. Well, we finally decided to meet. Saturday night is when we had it set. Both of us were anticipating the encounter. Wondering if there would be any face to face chemistry. All week we wondered about this. Then Saturday finally came.......and lets just say OH BABY!!!

YES...there was chemistry. He was just as his picture and just how his description said. And he talked and could make me laugh. So right away we were very comfortable with one another. We didnt' get naughty right away. We were good, talking, laughing. We did however spend ALOT of time on the couch kissing. Something that is missing from alot of men on this site. It is the beginning of foreplay. It sets the mood and starts the stimulation. He is a very good kisser, licking my lips, and kissing me deeply. I would say that a few hours went by before I personally couldn't take it anymore. You see, I wanted more...we had talked about some things over the phone and i was ready to see just how real it was.
Alot of men say that oral is their favorite, but then they get here and have NO CLUE what they are doing. This man, he might have ruined me for all other men. He stimulated me orally and so intensly that my legs trembled for the entire time. And it felt like it when on for an hour, not sure, wasn't really looking at the clock. I was more or less screaming and moaning. He reached inside me with his tongue and touched places that i know have never been touched. I have never felt that intense of an orgasm before in my life. He does something with his tongue that just tingles your soul.
Of course i didnt' leave him without, i pleasured him and from what he says he quite enjoyed it too. So at least we both were left feeling wonderful. He stayed the night with me, he's a snuggler. I like that.

We had a VERY enjoyable time together and I am pretty sure that this is just the beginning of a wonderful friendship....with the best benefit package available.

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/15/2006 11:59 am

some woman have it, some don't...

It's all perspective because your chocolate may be my vanilla.

sxcurves4u 52F

1/15/2006 12:06 pm


On a serious note Lady, I truly am so very happy for you!

You met a real lover and gentle fun soul. I hope you can tell more of those encounters for the lonely men out there who have no clue how to arouse and satisfy a woman. They do need to know and understand the woman's point of view and how much we appreciate and want to return the pleasure tenfold...

All the best to both of you for 2006

Be well!


btw: I am not bi by any means but find your picture so very beautiful and you seem an amazing lady! Thanks for inspiring me!

rm_ilv2hvfun3 50M

2/6/2006 11:06 am

I am new to this site and am quite sceptical about people actually "hooking" up so to speak with others on the site and finding what they are really looking for. I am happy to read stories like this as it sounds like you had fun with some one you enjoy spending time with.

I agree 100% that most men don't really enjoy "pleasuring" a woman,I hear a few of my friends (we are all married)saying that they would di it to thier wifes but don't like it!!!! Well how good can it be for them if you are really not into it?? I wonder wy some women look for sex outside the realtionship they are in? some just don't know what they are missing.

I for one enjoy pleasuring a woman (just like described above) more than recieving pleasure!

eyeamhungry 57M

2/11/2006 6:00 am

Glad you had a wonderful encounter ... I hope it happens agains for you... from a man's perspective, I think the success of performing cunnilingus depends on women displaying and feeding back that they are enjoying the benefits ... what I have found is explore and ask, discover those G(olden) spot(s) ... We have hands, eyes, and a tongue coordinate the use and a little coaching never hurts either ... you shall be rewarded ... for me it is a real turn on to feel those thighs quiver in spasm around your head or even better have a squirter shower you with her pleasure!!!!

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