Just a swingin............................  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
2/6/2006 7:51 pm

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Just a swingin............................

Ok, I'm looking for couples that might have some advice on this point. As many of you know if your an avid reader of my blogs, I have met someone and we are enjoying exploring our sexuality together. We have talked about joining another couple but neither of us really knows how to go about this.

See, what I want to know is how do you go about this without getting possesive. I have always thought about doing this swinging lifestyle, and I think I may have found the right man for the life. But I want to know how to really get started.

I am not bisexual, HOWEVER, I am very curious. Not sure if I would be prepared to act on a woman, but most likely would let her with me.

My man is NOT bi sexual so thats another issue. I mean, I'm glad he's not, I'd rather him stick with women. LOL. But, do we just do oral swapping or full swap??

Anyone have any ideas about this stuff? Like i said, right now we're just curious about this. I don't want any pushy people emailing me or anything like that. And If your just single with no sidekick, forget it. If we play, it would only be together.
BTW, i haven't told him about this blog yet. SURPRISE honey, when u read this. LOL. I'm just scoping out the world of swinging couples.

falcon7789 67M

2/7/2006 2:05 pm

I am only half of a couple, but I have been with another couple as a 3some. I was contacted first by the husband after he read my profile. It took about a month before we actually met. A lot of information was exchanged in order for us to make sure we both were real about it. Of course ground rules were discussed, and I assured them I would abide by them. The first meeting between the 3 of us was at their house. We all talked for about an hour before we went to the bedroom. The experience was great. About the only advise I can give, is make sure the other couple knows exactly what you will and will not do. Talk a lot first, either by email or phone. Then meet in a public place, say over lunch or dinner. Then if you and them agree, go for it. Have fun and enjoy. For me it was a great experience, and we are very good friends now.


2/8/2006 7:34 pm

My "special guy" and I have talked about this too. And damn you sound just like me, I am not BI and niether is he. We are curious about this as well. I wanted a threesome, but we are special to each other, so I do not know how it will work. I hope you find out. and you can tell me....lol

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