Can lack of oral sex kill you???? LOL  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
12/5/2005 6:43 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Can lack of oral sex kill you???? LOL

I never realized how much i enjoyed oral until just recently. I mean, i went 10 years without. Never really knew what i was missing. But now, i DO..

The guy im seeing, well...oral is just not his thing. ANd if you know me at all.....well lets just say im dying over here. He's done it a few times, and he's willing. But its just not the same thing. Not like someone that LOVES to do it.

He's an awesome lover with many other talents, but im missing that one.

Anyone have any ideas on how to make this easier. I like him alot and i don't want this one thing to cause us issues. Do i find someone to help me with this? OR do i bite the bullet and just live with the other attributes he has?

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12/12/2005 9:56 am

I think its an interesting situation you have here, but I'd say why think of it in terms of either/or? You are absolutely correct that there is a big difference between someone who LOVES giving it as opposed to someone who is willing to accomodate. So I'd say go for both. The guy is great in many other areas so hang on to that, but there's nothing wrong with getting a little some on the side from someone who adores doing that. I'm actually one of those people and could kiss, caress, lick and suck you for hours if you're so inclined. I truly enjoy having a woman lie back and letting me take her to orgasmic heights.

rbob510215 47M
1656 posts
12/14/2005 12:22 pm

Dont settle if you luv to be eaten that much. Personally i am the type that lives to eat, i luv eating pussy and cant get enough. Have you tried telling him how much you like him going down on you. This might help, guys like hearing a woman tell them what they like and what you want us to do.

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
1/9/2006 2:34 pm

life is...full of choices. be honest with yourself will save you heartache later...and never, never settle. life is too short to
not have what you say you want. completely. totally.

sometimes...*other things* are more important and the *wanter*
changes...and that is to be acknowledged as well

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

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