A Date From HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

lady_on_fire 45F
498 posts
8/14/2005 8:27 pm

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A Date From HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh man, i was set up on a blind date last night and I have to say in all honesty, it was horrible. The guy was not at all my type, he was kind of squirly. Im not saying that smaller guys are bad, but im a BBW and im not looking for someone as small as this guy. But thats not even the bad thing. We went to dinner and there was more awkward silence than I knew what to do with. We had conversation, but not much. He was a gentleman, opening doors, etc. But I just didnt' really enjoy it i guess.
We didn't have alot in common and our interests were very different. Also, he doesn't want kids....i HAVE kids. So, I knew from the beginning it was not a good thing. But he wanted to go out and get to know me. Well, he even asked me for a kiss. I don't think i gave off any indications that I liked him. So that was strange for me.
Anyway, we ended the night early and I went out with friends. I feel bad, but I don't think either one of us wanted to continue the evening together.

So, this was really my first REAL date outside of this website. I think its easier to meet someone knowing that you are both meeting for the same reasons. Hmmm, not sure about this whole dating thing. Some people you can just click with and some you don't click at all.

I hope the next one(if there is another one) goes much better. We'll see.

MrRoarke2005 51M

8/16/2005 4:04 am

You go girl! Seems to fit, to say that here. Life is way too short to spend it on anything that is wasting it.

I suppose he was just wanting a little sugar from you. Like liking the icing off a cake you don't really care for...you're in the mood for something sweet and so even though the cake is not your favorite you go ahead and swipe a taste.

I agree about the dating thing. I'm currently going through a divorce anddo not look forward to 'meeting' people from scratch without purpose. Here on AdultFriendFinder atleast you have a mission that is agreed upon before meeting. Meet, idle chat, fuck and leave.

Best of luck to you my dear. By the by, nice pick, Sweety!

thom5055 61M

8/16/2005 9:45 pm


I've read your blog almost all the way, and must say that you sound like a very interesting person. Truthfully, I've been considering becoming a paid member of thois site (look at my blog for details), and must admit the opportunity to talk to you once in a while makes becoming a member more attractive. Not sure if we would ever get together for sex, although you sound like you would be fun that way too, mainly because I am apparently a little old for you. Just so you know, if I become a paid member (which is looking like more and more a possibility), I plan to send you an email, just so that we can start having a conversation. Hope that this is alright with you. If not, please let me know as I don't want to offend you. Take care, and hope to talk to you sometime in the next couple of weeks. Thom

lady_on_fire 45F

8/17/2005 6:23 am

Well thom5055, I read your profile and another post you added on someone elses blog and im sorry to say that im not your type. I am in fact a BBW,its sad that you say we remind you of mom and grandma. Thats stereotyping and Im not at all like that im sure. You would have had an enjoyable time,but you have to be able to open up to new things. Learn to explore new realms. You might be missing something really exciting out there.

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