Life is like that...........  

kuchiecat 48F
25 posts
1/31/2006 6:34 am

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Life is like that...........


Question to all u who read this. Do u belive that u can have friends with benefits? Just taking a quick pole there are some who don't and some who do. If u decide to take part in this please say yes or no and breifly explain ur side. I find that I can. How about u ?

seandtown 34M
2 posts
1/31/2006 7:02 pm

yes i think you can as long as the two people have mutual feelings about the relationship....


rm_loves2fuck68 42M

2/1/2006 12:29 pm

Yes....the first and most important thing is surrounding yourself with mentally secure people. It works as long as each one knows their role and their restrictions. Alot of people do get caught up and forget its a FWB situation and not a if we fuck youre mine type thing. Just my 2 cents.


partypeople44 38M
1 post
2/1/2006 1:55 pm

definately. I would be looking for soemone to meet up with everyonce in a while and have great sex and than come back when it is best for both of us


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
2/4/2006 4:46 pm

I had a GF once that wanted me to buy tires for her car...THAT ENDED THAT!!


rm_grandnibbler 59M/45F
2 posts
2/14/2006 1:07 am

Yes...If both friends are sincere, and benfit spread equally


rm_Phillylew 62M
11 posts
2/15/2006 6:17 am

Yes......If both parties are willing to accept the situation.That there will be no emotional attachments.Just an exceptional sexual experience.That they'll enjoy each other's company as time and schedules allow.Then it could work


rm_oldhat1957 59M

2/25/2006 5:42 pm

The benefits are obvious if one can have you as a friend. I for one, do value my friends and will do whatever is necessary to help, protect and return their faith. Lots of love


PhillyDude19115 52M
12 posts
3/4/2006 12:00 am

Absolutely. Both people must be mature, and both must be willing to accept that things aren't going to evolve to some deeper level -- unless both want it to. Otherwise, hey, get it on when it's good.


Hemingway397 65M/56F
1 post
3/5/2006 5:02 pm

622
Of course, as long as both parties agree.


cdnonion 51M

5/15/2006 3:50 am

For any relationship to be successful you need mutual respect and open communication. If you are able to respect each other and be muture enough to accept things as they are then the only thing left to agree on is "your place or mine".


rm_straycat1919 53M
2 posts
7/16/2006 4:01 pm

Yes, I believe in friends with benefits. I believe people should feel good about keeping each other in close fun sexual company if they want while also realizing that they each might not be "right" for each other.


RawFusion34 51M
14 posts
11/10/2006 7:45 pm

Interesting question.

Intelligent people understand that love and sex are not mutually exclusive, and having one doesn't mean you are satisfied with the other. Love can exist without sex, or without total manogamy within the sexual portion of the relationship. Sex is an entity all it's own. Where people generally fuck up is thinking that one has anything to do with the other.

If you understand the differences between love and sex, 'friends with benefits' can be a reality. If not, you'll just fall for every person who fucks you well.

'Friends with benefits' aren't as rare as some would make it out to be, and is definitely not impossible as one person here as attested. If it were impossible, there wouldn't be married couples who swing. As a couple, and as individuals, they have sex with other people, but they only love each other. They truly understand the differences between love and sex, and unlike your average married couple, they are comfortable with it.


RawFusion34 51M
14 posts
11/10/2006 7:48 pm

Interesting question.

Intelligent people understand that love and sex are not mutually exclusive, and having one doesn't mean you are satisfied with the other. Love can exist without sex, or without total manogamy within the sexual portion of the relationship. Sex is an entity all it's own. Where people generally fuck up is thinking that one has anything to do with the other.

If you understand the differences between love and sex, 'friends with benefits' can be a reality. If not, you'll just fall for every person who fucks you well.

'Friends with benefits' aren't as rare as some would make it out to be, and is definitely not impossible as one person here as attested. If it were impossible, there wouldn't be married couples who swing. As a couple, and as individuals, they have sex with other people, but they only love each other. They truly understand the differences between love and sex, and unlike your average married couple, they are comfortable with it. I'm sure there are uncommitted individuals who understand it as well.


RawFusion34 51M
14 posts
11/11/2006 7:35 am

Sorry about the double posting there. This place doesn't allow for editing, and I deleted that first one. I don't know why it showed back up.


rm_togetsomenow 51M

12/23/2006 12:48 am

I think you canhave friends with benefits! The problem comes when the when it kept a secret!


rm_spankndatass 42M

1/1/2007 4:50 am

yes you can. people say that women want love and affection. Men do also. If thats what you want look for it. Being a friend with benefits means that you can kick it with this person ya know movies, dinner and drinks, or just crazy convo on the phone. this friend is the person you feel comfortable with and having sex yes is the benefit but that emotional part will have to just be loving this person as a friend and friend only. the time you spend together will depend on both schedules which should be limited!!!make sure you have something else to do with yourself.but if the vibe is good 85% turn to relationships. The other percent stay sane and enjoy the freedom of not having a title on their heads..


MindBodySoul73 43M

3/15/2007 9:53 pm

Yes as long as the two of you discuss it and are aware of what FWB's really means.


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