Treated nice  

krsandhu 53F
311 posts
7/27/2006 10:55 pm

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12/18/2006 9:49 pm

Treated nice

Today is a quiet day. Was just thinking of all the men I have met in my life and it got me wondering.

I must say that the men who have paid for my time have treated me so much better than the men who were getting freebies from me. Now that makes me wonder.

Of course I have been selective even though I charge for my time, I still don't give it to everyone even though they are willing to pay for it. They still do have to meet a certain criteria. Of course, I have always been selective when it comes to men, but still they never treated me nice and only had their own interest at heart.

The men I now meet despite paying for my time, treat me like a lady, they wine and dine me, they are romantic and we have lots of good and stimulating conversations before proceeding to more for the night. And even the sex is great as they give as much as they get, unlike the guys who were given freebies, they only took and only cared about their own satisfaction. These men who pay actually take the time to know more about me.

Its nice to be with people who are interested in what I have to say and not just someone who wants to get into my pants.

This made me realise that its true when people say that men value things that they have to pay for. When they get it free they do not value or appreciate it.

All the men who got freebies from me never valued me of gave me any respect, and now I get so much more respect from these man who pay for my time.

So what can I say, is it right or wrong. The more I think about it, the more I feel that Im doing the right thing as I have been treated so well by these men. Its nice to be treated like a lady and given respect for a change.

LeninRuntsBurrs 42F

8/13/2006 12:52 am

u r a mature and level-headed woman who knows what she wants. i feel respect for u. a true blue lady.

take care.

milady_de_winter 43F

8/13/2006 1:22 am

hugggggssss to Krsandhu.

I somehow cannot charge for sex.... but honey you deserve a hugg from me....i know what you have been my heart is always open to takes guts to do what you do...

Keep on blogging and thanks for being level headed in the chatroom that are a gem



krsandhu 53F

8/13/2006 4:49 am

gb...thanks dear, I respect u too dear. I like a woman who say what she wants and I think u are just that...

krsandhu 53F

8/13/2006 4:56 am


Thanks for your comments, but as I did tell u, I don't charge for sex, I charge for my time irrespective of what the client wants to do. Sometimes, they just want good company, someone to have dinner with and a go stimulating and intelligent conversation with, which is something which lots of people seem to lack this days. It may or may not include sex but point it they pay me for my time spend with them.

I have also found that lots of women on this site, supposedly go on dates with guys and make the guy take them shopping or buy them expensive gifts, which in actual fact they are deceiving the guy. At least at the end of the day, I can go to bed with a clear concious that I have not deceived anyone and every men I went with knew exactly who to expect and what is expected.

Anyway you take care and be happy, only u control how happy u want to be no one else, so don't let people who are not worth it spoil your mood.

Hugs and kisses

wet_pussy4ever 43F
3059 posts
8/15/2006 4:26 am

well, dear.. i guess there isn't anytg rite or wrong in wat u r doing.. it's ur decision... i guess it will b rite if.. at d end of it u r happy yeah.. we have to condiser wat we wanna do or going to... so tat we won't make mistakes.. bt we r not all perfect here.. down d road sumwer we r bound to make mistakes... so, weather it's rite or worng.. b happy in anytg u do now i alwiz believe.. live life to d fullest... do watever we can now.. so tat we dun regret not doing it later...


dewey4chat_153 105F

12/18/2006 9:39 pm

I love this part and I'm fully agreed with you with this :

This made me realise that its true when people say that men value things that they have to pay for. When they get it free they do not value or appreciate it.


krsandhu 53F

12/18/2006 9:49 pm

dewey...thanks for dropping by sweetie.. and yeah its something I have really experienced.

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