My first Blog  

krsandhu 53F
311 posts
7/26/2006 3:07 am

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My first Blog

I never thought that I would be writing my thoughts and experiences for everyone to read. I have always been a private person and only shared my thoughts and experience with people who Im close to or people who needed advice. I have been a member of for approxiamtely 2 years now and its only lately that I started reading the blogs here. To be exact about 3 days ago. It got me thinking that this is one way I could share my experiences with other people, don't know if anyone is ever going to read my blogs. But here I am, writing down my thoughts.

Since I joined I have met lots of interesting people and lots of jerks too. Most of the women I chatted with seemed really nice and friendly. However I found that most men were just looking for free and quick fucks with the exception of a few.

When I first started in my profile clearly stated the kind of men I would like to meet. Most of those who contacted me were assholes who expected me to come to their hotel room, fuck them and leave. They didn't even have to the courtesy to at least invite me out to dinner or drinks and see if we click.

To be honest, before I joined I was kind of conservative but since them I have become more open, as I got to know more people and their likings and fantasies.

I have alway been one never to judge or force my opinions on others as I feel we all are different and although we may not agree with someone, we should respect their opinions, as long as we do not hurt anyone intentionally, thats all that really matter.

When I started chatting in the SEA room, I found that there were some men who were very judgemental and disrespectful to women and also some women who were racist. I do understand its allright to have preferences, I do too, but I don't agree to bashing a person because of what race he or she is. This only shows that the person has a low mentality as we are all humans irrespective of race or religion. If I don't like someone, I will tell them politely that they do not meet my criteria but would never insult them unless they are rude to me, then its tit for tat.

Of course we are all different as mentioned earlier but this is me. I don't expect everyone to be like me or to feel like me. But I would expect normal courtesy and not to insult anyone.

A few months ago I changed my profile where I also mentioned that I provide personal tourguide and escort services. The decision to do this was based on alot of things including my past experiences with men. When I changed my profile, there were some jack asses who condemn me, of course those who wanted free fucks as I refused to meet anyone who had nothing to offer me. I also had alot of men who told me that they respect me for being honest and straightforward and not deceiving them unlike some women they had met on this site. Apparently the women would accept a date invitation and when the time comes for something more, she would request for money thereby catching him unaware. There were also married men who told me they were blackmailed by the women they had a supposedly no strings attached relationship.

Anyway Its good to know that there are men out there who appreciate an honest women.

Well I will write more in my next blog.

Thanks for reading

fwolfc 43M
519 posts
7/27/2006 4:47 am

hie....remember me!!!! welcome to blogland....write write write

rm_Maribelle4 56F

7/29/2006 3:29 am

hi sonia dear {{HUGZ}} am so glad you chose to write down your blog and tell it like it is in AdultFriendFinder! yes lots of jerks who dont know how to treat a woman...but I've been lucky to find some who do treat a woman decently, but still looking for that special someone like you too! am sure we're gonna find that special guy who's got good intentions and a high libido to satisfy us emotionally as well as physically! did I mention he ought to be filthy rich too? LOL (joke1) but someone financially and psychologically stable is good! to all you perverts out there...sonia and I are the best! so you ought to be too!

wet_pussy4ever 43F
3059 posts
8/15/2006 4:29 am

Hey dear.. welcome to blgoland i guess we'll c u here more often too now


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