Oral sex - one man's perspective  

krajerinond 52M
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4/12/2005 6:35 pm

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Oral sex - one man's perspective

Well, of course I like it...I'm not stupid. It's just that so many people profess that they are all experts at it. And not all of them are right. We all know what I'm talking about: that play partner who says that they enjoy it, but when lick comes to shove, they couldn't perform to save their souls.

Look, it's not that hard to master. My biggest observation is that too many people get wrapped up in doing the act, and not paying enough attention on what effect (if any) their actions are having on their partner. According to most women I talk to on the subject, this seems to be really apparent with guys. Men, let me give you one word of advice. Listen. That's it...plain and simple. If you listen to your partner and her verbalizations, she'll let you know just how well your technique is doing. Also, once you start her up that path to heavenly bliss, for crying out loud DO NOT STOP! Women, unlike men, are super sensitive to stimulation, and once they start that climb towards their orgasmic peak, if you stop, they very quickly lose all the gains you have made, and must start all the way back at square one again. So, for Pete's sake (as well as your own jaw), once you got her on the home strech, don't spare the horses.

Now ladies...I usually don't have a problem with how you go down on me. Hell, most times I am just glad you are going downtown. But please, for the love of god, if you are gonna make the committment of doing oral, please do it for longer than 10 seconds. Look, I can understand if you don't like it. But if you don't, dammit, say so! There is nothing worse than you being down there long enough to give it a couple of licks then ask if we're ready to go at it. You wouldn't want us doing that to you, so please...if you are gonna do it....be like Nike and just do it.

And on the subject of swallowing or not swallowing....can you let us know beforehand? We'll usually be kind enough to tell you we are cumming if you don't want to swallow...we just like a little forwarning is all.

Now I assume that some of you might take offense with some of the stuff I have to say. Hell, many of you might think I am a total jerk for voicing my opinions on the subject. However, since this is my blog, I get to expound on whatever. If you feel so inclined, let me know where I went wrong.

Until later, play safe and play hard!

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