from reading others, realizing what I wanted..  

konkali 40F
91 posts
11/20/2005 6:11 pm

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from reading others, realizing what I wanted..


it's fun to read what people are looking for.. and in some ways, I realize I have become that person, but it doesn't do me much good.
I don't really mind the sexual curiosity, come to think of it, I'm usually the one starting most of the trouble. I want to try new things, explore crazy kinky ideas, and am willing to talk about anything, some things I have tried, and not enjoyed, others become part of my kinkster repetoire.. but having done all this.. I miss.. I miss the good old fashioned ideal seduced and loved fairy tale.

Wanted: Kinky girl seeks man who will seduce me the good old fashoined way, with candle light and long walks, hold my hand frequently, kiss me slowly and tenderly. On occasion, I will fall out of character of this classis seductive beauty and turn into the leather and chains gurrl from down the other side of town.

But what I really wanted to ask about was, so what? What happens after you've been there done that? It stays fun, but in some ways I'm bored, I don't enjoy the extremes and curiosity without the passion and trust. It's a bit tough, but I find everyone gets bored when there's not a challenge and there's not an emotional link.
I've got a boyfriend, of sorts. I've left it to friends with benefits for that reason. I've befriended one person here in person, and we have a good honest relationship. But i've been at a loss to find people who I would deem as dual natured. Really rough on the outside, warm and all of the above on the inside. There are a lot of really gentle people on the outside, who are true beasts (in a good way) on the inside, but I'm lookin for someone who is both Jekyll and Hyde and loves both sides of it. Perhaps one day, the man who showed me my Hyde will learn to embrace Hyde while retaining jekyll..

dasher121 36M

11/21/2005 8:39 am

Those are def not unattainable requests at all. The answer is simple, you need to find the man who is your "balance". However, finding this person is not so simple. I always go by this, from experience, we all have our person who "balances" us. The one who you deem perfect for you, completely knocks you on your ass when you first meet them. But I firmly believe that these people come when you are not expecting them at all.
I met what I thought to be my balance once, a long time ago now. And I met her by spilling a beer on her foot. Complete accident, completely embarrassed. But thts how it happened. Dont stress about it too much, you will find him. Ok ok, Im sure my Obi Wan routine is getting old with this ramble, have a great one


volcanoinu23 52M

11/29/2005 11:40 am

The fun is in what is around the next corner. Perhaps being able to deal with the things that we didn't expect, but there is a certain thrill in the unknown. I am sure, like me, you have been on a hike, light fading, but you can't turn yourself around becasue you have to know what greets you around the next turn of the wild trail.

I feel like a king of cliches!


redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
12/7/2005 9:17 am

Infatuation is hard to maintain. Humans crave sexual variety. What can remain over time is friendship, admiration, common interests, love, sharing good times and tough times. My advice: find someone you like, admire, trust and enjoy. Fuck this person regularly in every different way!


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