Day Eleven - YES!  

kneadingit 50M
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1/13/2006 9:44 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Day Eleven - YES!


Great day!!!

I actually got a real, live e-mail from a real, live woman. Thanks, wench!!!

She raises a good point - no pic = no views and no e-mails. It is definitely the same in reverse - I probably spend 90% of my time looking at profiles with pics, and only 10% at those without (if I come across them through matches or blogs or elsewhere).

HOWEVER - my question is this:

Even if I was single (which I am not), and even if my friends, family, co-workers, customers, and neighbors knew that I was on the market, I would STILL not post a picture out here. Why, you ask?

Because, I do not talk sex with them in other settings. In all of these relationships, I share varying depths of intimacy - none of which can be protected out here if I post my pic on the site.

So, my question is this. For those of you who have both a) pictures of yourself up here and b) divulged your inner-most fantasies about sex, have you ever been contacted or confronted by someone you know who was shocked to see you naked and learn how your mind ticks?

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