Family of Lesbians  

knduhtheflirt 53F
81 posts
5/14/2006 4:31 pm

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6/14/2006 10:01 pm

Family of Lesbians


Lately, my family has been turned upside down a little bit due to the fact that more of my cousins have come out of the closet and now dating women. I myself am 23 years older then they are , yet we still face the same challenges in our family. YEt, yesterday as we celebrated life and love with our family and celebrate graduation and mothers day, things seemed to be all calm and even fun and laughter. Everyone was aceepted into the family very easliy, yet, I can see some family dont know what to say or do. One comment made to me last year by my mother was she didnt care who I was with as long as I was happy, and this was the happiest she has seen me in ages. So she accepts any of my friends into the house and visits with them. As well as my cousins feel like they can come to the house without having to be afraid of what someone might say. When I was thier age I didnt dare speak out and say I was gay in a small town, yet now its open to anyone around. I sometimes see where I opened the doors for them to be freer yet, others times they have helped me be freer. I know its not always easy to accept lesbians or gays into a life, however think of your loved one and ask yourself, do you want them happy or sad the rest of thier lives? We dont push our ways on other we only want to be happy. SO please accept us with open arms and let us have love and happiness. I dont know if it makes sense or not but family matters and everyone has a need to be loved.

Life is what you make it. Find your dreams


skitzobif 37F

5/16/2006 2:10 am

know what that's my dilemma right now, i cannot tell my parents my sexual preference.. im afraid that they cannot accept me for who i am.. and it is sad being in this situation. I don't know if they can accept me but im afraid to see their reaction that's why im planning to go somewhere else to free myself. im goint to tell them eventually but not right now. I think if im stable and can be by myself then that's the right time.. i am hoping for the right time to come, the sooner the better...


knduhtheflirt 53F
24 posts
5/16/2006 6:07 pm

skitzobif, know that they probabyl already know that U r into women. Just know that U have to be happy with who U r and then U can be happy anywhere and can tell anyone who U really r. I know its not easy, just know Ur family will love U for who U r, just love yourself and move on from there. And dont settle for just anyone. Find the person who can fulfill Ur hearts desires and love U for the rest of ur life.

Life is what you make it. Find your dreams


skitzobif 37F

5/16/2006 10:10 pm

you're right. i ope the right time comes and the one i chose should be my lifetime partner.

thankz


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